Showing posts with label Jennifer Slattery. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Jennifer Slattery. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 3, 2017

Three steps to starting your own speaking ministry


Jennifer Slattery
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Jennifer Slattery

Editors and agents tell us we need a large and growing platform in order to be competitive in today’s saturated market. Though the pressure is less acute for fiction writers, we all feel it none-the-less. Because of this, many in this highly introverted group have turned to speaking as a way to increase their audience and their sales.

A great idea, right? Minus the fact that many of you have begun hyperventilating at the thought. Relax. Breathe, and grab a large supply of chocolate, and keep reading. You might discover it’s easier than you think to become a competent speaker.


But first, let’s talk briefly about where and how to gain speaking engagements. Begin by brainstorming various venues, such as libraries, church and Bible study groups, and civil organizations. Many libraries host book clubs who love having local or traveling authors visit.

For most venues, you’ll want to pitch a topic to the group leader. This will require more brainstorming. Does you story touch on forgiveness? Did that thread come from something you yourself struggled with? If so, make a talk out of it, then pare your talk to a one paragraph pitch. And let others know—your neighbors, coworkers, random strangers you meet at coffeehouses—that you’re available for speaking engagements.
Then, once you gain gigs, you want to make sure you come out strong. Don’t expect perfection but rather, steady progress.




By small, I mean in terms of audience size and time commitment. My first speaking engagement, about fifteen years ago, lasted maybe ten minutes, and involved ten people tops. My next few talks were similar in length and audience size. Though I didn’t plan this, I have no doubt God did. He has a tendency of leading us step-by-step, stretching us just enough without allowing us to crash completely.


Everyone messes up in the beginning—stutters then forgets their words, and peppers their talks with way too many “ums” and “uhs.” Those blunders aren’t a big deal in front of ten or fifteen people. Multiply the audience by twenty, however, and it’s likely new speakers will leave the event so terrified they’ll never want to speak in front of others again!



I can’t over-emphasize this point enough. Practice in front of a mirror, record yourself practicing, gather your friends and random strangers and practice your talk in front of them. According to Carmine Gallo, author of Talk Like Ted, one should “Practice relentlessly and internalize your content so that you can deliver the presentation as comfortably as having a conversation with a close friend” (p. 75).


This is also a great way to reduce the stammers and the ums. Plus, the better you perform in one event, the more likely you are to be booked for another. Consider each gig a job interview.

When Sara Bernier, speaker with Wholly Loved Ministries, felt God’s nudge to speak, she intentionally sought out small-step opportunities. “I approached Nathan Reeves the executive producer at Reality Church in LaVista,” Sara said. “I overheard him talking to the executive pastor about the need for service hosts, so I told him that I was eager for more speaking opportunities and would be happy to try out.”

This allowed her to practice standing in front of an audience and also provided an opportunity for her to receive invaluable feedback from others.



Most writers would never think of submitting a story, be it to an editor, agent, or their readership directly, until they’ve sifted it through their trusted critique partners and beta readers. If we want to have strong keynotes, we’ll apply this same diligence to our presentations. When we receive feedback before our engagement, we ensure our words have maximum impact, that our message is clear, interesting, and that it stays on point. When we solicit feedback from a trusted audience member after our performance, we provide ourselves with an opportunity to grow and improve.

Speaking is a great way to build your platform, increase book sales, and connect on a more personal level with your audience. If you’ve never spoken before, the idea of doing so might feel daunting. You can grow your confidence, however, by starting small and practicing often. Then, solicit feedback and grow from there. If you do, you’ll likely have a thriving and effective speaking ministry within a few years.

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Novelist and speaker Jennifer Slattery has a passion for helping women discover, embrace, and live out who they are in Christ. As the founder of Wholly Loved Ministries, she and her team put on events at partnering churches designed to help women rest in their true worth and live with maximum impact. She writes devotions for Internet CafĂ© Devotions, Christian living articles for Crosswalk.com, and edits for Firefly, a Southern fiction imprint with Lighthouse Publishing of the Carolinas. When not writing, reading, or editing, Jennifer loves going on mall dates with her adult daughter and coffee dates with her hilariously fun husband.

Visit with Jennifer online at JenniferSlatteryLivesOutLoud.com and connect with her on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/JenSlatte



Restoring Love

Mitch, a contractor and house-flipper, is restoring a beautiful old house in an idyllic Midwestern neighborhood. Angela, a woman filled with regrets and recently transplanted to his area, is anything but idyllic. She's almost his worst nightmare, and she s also working on restoring something herself. As he struggles to keep his business afloat and she works to overcome mistakes of her past, these two unlikely friends soon discover they have something unexpected in common, a young mom who is fighting to give her children a better life after her husband's incarceration. While both Mitch and Angela are drawn to help this young mother survive, they also find themselves drawn to each other. Will a lifetime of regrets hold them back or unite them and bring redemption along with true love?



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Tuesday, March 29, 2016

Three Keys to a Winning MIndset



By guest blogger, Jennifer Slattery

Over the years, I’ve watched writers come and go, some faltering others soaring, and I’ve discovered those who succeed have cultivated a winning mindset.

Our thinking determines our behavior, and our behavior determines our results. Or as Henry Ford put it, “Whether you think you can, or think you can’t—you’re right.” Therefore, if we want to be successful, we need to think like successful people.

Successful people embrace failure.


Writing is a journey of continual failure. We’ve all heard about award-winning authors who received fifty to one hundred rejections before landing their first contract. But few of us have heard about those writers who quit after rejection number forty-nine. Those people simply drift into obscurity, taking their broken dreams with them.

What if they were one rejection away from landing that big contract? They’ll never know.

Failure doesn’t end post release. To the contrary, the stakes simply get higher. I’ve heard of authors who’ve become crippled by negative reviews and poor sales. Because they’ve come to see failure as their enemy rather than their friend.

But then there are those who bounce back from every obstacle, recognizing failure isn’t a dead end but rather an opportunity to grow and learn.

Which leads me to my next point.  

Successful people are perpetual learners.

We all know we need to study the craft and attend conferences, but how well do we respond to constructive criticism. The other day, a new writer friend asked if I’d ever felt a critique partner’s comments were so far off, I ignored them completely. My response—no. I can learn from every piece of feedback, whether I agree with it or not.

Here’s what I’ve observed: those who respond negatively to constructive criticism tend to flat-line whereas those who embrace it tend to soar. Their skills rapidly improve as they begin to learn from others.

I’d rather receive harsh feedback pre-release than post. That doesn’t mean I agree with everything my critique partners say but I can always find a nugget of truth in their responses. And regarding the comments I disagree with—I simply ignore them and apply what I find helpful.

Successful people fight negative thinking.

Negative thinking is a waste of time. It hampers one’s creativity, saps their strength, and places them in a “defeated” posture. But we were called to so much more! 2 Corinthians 10:5 tells us to take our thoughts captive and make them obedient to Christ. So what is Christ saying to you?

He’s saying, “I formed you. I planted the dream of writing deep in your heart and I am the one who has called you to this journey. I’ll go before you and I’ll walk beside you. I’ll open doors that no one can shut, and through you, I will make my love and grace known to a broken humanity. I alone will do these things. All you need to do is surrender, trust in me, and keep walking, knowing I will perfect that which concerns you.”

Which of these three mind-sets do you need to work on and what steps can you take today to cultivate successful thinking? Share your thoughts, experiences, and ideas with us, because we can all learn from each other. 
   

Jennifer Slattery writes soul-stirring fiction for New Hope Publishers, Christian living articles for Crosswalk.com, and devotions for Internet CafĂ© Devotions, the group blog, Faith-filled Friends, and her personal blog. She also does content editing for Lighthouse Publishing of the Carolinas’ Firefly imprint, and loves working with authors who are serious about pursuing their calling. When not writing, reading, or editing, Jennifer loves going on mall dates with her adult daughter and coffee dates with her hilariously fun husband.
Visit with Jennifer online at JenniferSlatteryLivesOutLoud.com and connect with her on Facebook and Twitter: @Jenslattery
Breaking Free:Sometimes it takes losing everything to grab hold of what really matters. 

Women’s ministry leader and Seattle housewife, Alice Goddard, and her successful graphic-designer husband appear to have it all together. Until their credit and debit cards are denied, launching Alice into an investigation that only leads to the discovery of secrets. Meanwhile, her husband is trapped in a downward spiral of lies, shame, and self-destruction. Can they break free from their deception and turn to the only One who can save them? And will it be in time to save their marriage?

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