Writing through the Reality of Life

with guests Lenora Worth and Terri Reed.

Hi, we’re so glad to be here to share the excitement as Seekerville begins their eleventh year. We don’t want to put a damper on things, but … when was the last time you stopped to take care of your writer’s soul?

Been a while? Well, stick around because we know a lot about this subject since we both just finished a grueling project involving several writers. While we were busy brainstorming and plotting, it seemed as if life was plotting against us. Anything that could go wrong in our personal lives did go wrong. 

Writer stress messes with both our physical bodies and our heads. Everything from writer’s block and depression, family issues, and physical ailments, can bring our fast-paced rush to get that book done to a slamming halt. When we try to push through without stopping to take care of ourselves, we can sometimes make things worse.

Writers have the need to produce good stories. This brings a different kind of stress, because we think too much. We process, analyze, dissect, put back together and come up with ten ways to worry over a sentence.

When you add life plus deadlines plus health issues plus family issues, well, that’s writer’s stress. Soon, you’re sitting in your office staring out the window. You’ve forgotten how to write and you just can’t form the words.

Here are some suggestions we’ve compiled over the years on how to take care of the writerly you.

1. Set realistic expectations. Don’t try to prove you can do it all. You’ll make yourself sick trying. It’s okay to hold up a white flag and surrender sometimes. Set little achievable goals that work toward the bigger goal. It’s easier to build a house one brick at a time than trying to lay all the bricks at once.

2. Our worst fears stem from not measuring up. We judge ourselves and feel like failures if we can’t do it all. This is a vicious pattern. Give yourself grace the way God does. He knows you inside and out and loves you. Self-love is not self-centeredness. It’s okay to be okay with yourself. You’re enough.

3. Stress is not about everything that’s happening in your life—it’s about how you react to everything that’s happening in your life. When you find yourself in a tight situation, don’t look around. Look inside and to God then decide what’s best for you. He will guide you. Sometimes His answer is to step back and let go of anything unnecessary that is contributing to your stress.

4. Don’t go borrowing trouble. Publishers shut down, editors get shifted around, and e-publishing and print books are trying to cope with each other. This industry is too big for one writer to worry over! Stay informed, yes. Ask questions, yes. Absorb facts, but don’t take on worries about things you can’t control. You only have two shoulders! (Stretch those shoulders every few minutes.)

5. Learn to take things slow. Hard to do in such a fast-paced I-need-it-now world. Or as Judy Christie says in her book “Hurry Less, Worry Less at Work” learn to take the “deadly” out of deadlines. Put some wiggle room in deadlines and in your blue jeans. 🙂

Because your waistline can increase right along with your deadline worries, right? So take time before you head to your writing so you can focus. Let that guilt go and take a walk or kiss your honey. Take a little time to do something that doesn’t involve work. Exercise your body as well as your mind. Even during deadline week!

6. Prayer plus Action equals a good reaction. Prayer or meditation can be very important in every aspect of our lives, but action can bring you peace of mind. Find a way to live with intention. Don’t let the writing own you. If your flame is fueled by what matters in life, your fire won’t go out when your career takes a wrong turn. Sometimes life’s bumps are part of God’s plan to grow and stretch you.

7. Take on only what strengthens you. Don’t say YES to all the right things for all the wrong reasons. You have to carve out a spot where work takes priority. Say NO to requests that don’t bring you joy. If you find writing draining at times, try to find a pace that allows it to become a joy again. Even in crisis mode, remember writing is your thing. It’s important. It’s your job. But taking time to heal or reset your joy button is even more important. Life crisis comes before a deadline, okay? A deadline can be extended. Your life? Not so much if you’re slowly taking away years due to too much anxiety.

8. Are you successful but stressed? Or are you successful in spite of stress? Are there times you want to stay in bed all day, hidden under the covers? Do you make yourself get up? Writing should be a joy even on days when it feels like a drain. But when you’re in crisis mode, it’s hard to be joyful. Start with one or two minutes of gratitude attitude. See if that can be extended a little each day until you’re back. 

9. Are you keeping up the act of a happy, successful person when you feel like a complete flop? Reach out to others. If you strip things down and spill your heart, you’ll become surrounded by the grace and the fellowship of people who understand. And you’ll find out they need to talk about such things, too. It’s not so much that misery loves company. But misery NEEDS company!

10. Learn to show poise under stress, grace under pressure and acceptance of yourself during hard times. Remember, it’s how we react to stressful situations that matters. It’s not easy but the next time you want to throw a hissy fit, go ahead and do it. Find a private place and rant. Get in the shower and cry. Then pick yourself up and take deep, calming breaths for several minutes. 

Breathe, really let go and breathe. Define stress as part of life, laugh in its ugly face. Put on some color and blow kisses into the wind. You can’t burn out if you know how to sparkle! 

Two good books on this subject are Judy Christie’s “Hurry Less, Worry Less at Work” and Allie Pleiter’s “How to Write When Everything Goes Wrong.”

Now we’d like to hear from you. Are you in a good place or a bad place? What have you done to get through a hard time?

Today, Lenora and Terri have brought a terrific prize package. Three commenters will take home books. One will take home Terri Reed's Guardian, another Lenora Worth's Tracker and a third will win Classified K9 Unit Christmas featuring novellas by both Terri and Lenora!!

Here's a sneak peek:

 Classified K-9 Unit Christmas

A Killer Christmas by Lenora Worth


When FBI K-9 agent Nina Atkins thwarts an attempted murder, she becomes a target of the killer—the same hit man US Marshal Thomas Grant is tracking. Even caught in the crosshairs, Nina’s reluctant to share her case, but working with Thomas may be the only way to capture a murderer before she becomes his next victim.

Yuletide Stalking by Terri Reed


Determined to stop an arsonist with the help of his accelerant-detecting K-9 partner, FBI agent Tim Ramsey must protect the only witness. But when the criminal begins stalking Vickie Petrov, can Tim convince her to trust him…and help her survive to see another Christmas?

Tracker 

MISSION: REUNITE MOTHER AND SON



Single mother Penny Potter has spent months in hiding to keep her toddler from his father, a rogue FBI agent turned fugitive. But he’s determined to flee the country with the child, and she can’t dodge him forever. When he corners Penny in the Montana wilderness and gets away with their son, she’s forced to trust his brother, handsome FBI K-9 agent Zeke Morrow. And Zeke must decide where his loyalty lies: with his sibling or the woman he wasn’t supposed to fall for. As the bullets fly and family ties are tested, Penny and Zeke will fight to save the boy who brought them together.

Guardian

PROTECTING THE SINGLE MOM 

When a fellow FBI agent is kidnapped and a protected witness vanishes, Leo Gallagher will stop at nothing to find them both. So when he discovers a link between the case and a single mother in Wyoming, Leo and his trusty K-9 partner rush to question Alicia Duncan. Could she be the key to locating the missing persons? Not if a killer has anything to say about it. Someone is determined to keep Alicia from talking, so Leo and his chocolate Lab must keep her and her little boy safe on their family ranch. With danger lurking around every corner, Leo must work overtime to not lose another person who's important to him.



Lenora Worth writes romance and romantic suspense for Love Inspired and also writes for Tule Publishing. Three of her books finaled in the ACFW Carol Awards and several have been RT Reviewer’s Choice finalists. She also received the RT Romance Pioneer Award for Inspirational Fiction. “Logan’s Child” won the 1998 Best Love Inspired for RT. She has made the NY Times, USA Today and Publishers Weekly bestseller lists. With seventy-five books published and millions in print, she enjoys adventures with her retired husband, Don. Lenora loves reading, baking and shopping … especially shoe shopping.

 Terri Reed’s romance and romantic suspense novels have appeared on Publisher’s Weekly top 25, Nielsen’s Bookscan top 100 and featured in USA Today, Christian Fiction Magazine and Romantic Times Magazine, finaled in RWA’s RITA contest, National Reader’s Choice Award contest, ACFW’s The Carol Award contest. Contact Terri @ www.terrireed.com or P.O. Box 19555 Portland, OR 97224m.

9 Ways to Develop Story Characters

with Terri Reed.

Thank you Seekerville for hosting me today. I love to talk about writing.  So let’s start with a question. What is the most memorable part of a story?

We might remember a setting, such as middle earth, a ship in space or a plantation in the Deep South. We might remember the dialogue, those pithy sayings that end up on memes. But for sure we remember great characters, like Scarlett O’Hara and Ret Butler. Frodo and Sam. Dorothy and Oz. Hans and Lea. Ironman and Pepper Potts. The list could go on and on.

There are so many different approaches to take when developing characters. There’s the throw everything at the wall and see what sticks method. Or there are more methodical ways to go about creating unique and unforgettable characters. In my opinion, no one way is better than another. They all work. They all bring out different aspects of characterization. I do a bit of both but lean more toward the methodical style. I use a variety of methods, blending them together to build three-dimensional characters that I hope will be remembered long after readers put down the book. Here some of the ways I build my characters.

1) Goal, Motivation and Conflict by Debra Dixon. 

When I first started writing I had no concept of GMC. Soon after I joined Romance Writers of America and the local chapter here in the Rose City, I attended one of Debra Dixon’s workshops and my mind was blown. It made so much sense. I immediately bought her book and devoured it.  Each character must have a goal for the story and for their lives. There has to be compelling motivation to make the reader care and enough conflict that keeps the characters from reaching the goal to make the story interesting.


2) The Plot Doctor by Carolyn Greene. 

 I learned about The Plot Doctor through another writer. I ordered the workbook, back then it came by snail mail. I was so excited to delve into the forms. Did I mention I love forms? The workbook provided is a wonderful tool for organizing the characters and explores deep into the characters psyche, expounding on GMC and adding in misguided goals and things to consider that help the characters grow. There are plotting charts as well as character charts and clear directions on how to use them.


3) Psychological tools such as Enneagrams with Laurie Schnebly and Archetypes (here’s a good list from author Jill Williamson). There are many more sites that list archetypes.

 These aren’t the only resources to draw from: there’s Myers-Briggs, Strength Finders, and a whole host of other personality tests and quizzes online. Whatever source you use, it’s only a tool, not an absolute. However, having a template for a character to draw from is an invaluable place to start.  Building upon the character traits for any of the enneagrams or archetypes can jump start the creative process. And even combining them help to round out the characters.  In my October release A Family Under the Christmas Tree, my hero is an Achiever/Investigator but also a bit of a Lost Soul while the heroine is an Individualist/Loyalist but also a bit of a Free Spirit.


4) The Writer’s Journey by Christopher Vogler is based on the work of Joseph Campbell, A Hero with a Thousand Faces.  Mr. Vogler outlines the 12 steps of a Hero’s Journey that help in plotting but also in creating the character arc.  You can also find a Heroine’s journey and a list of Archetypes on The Writer’s Journey website.

 I use the twelve steps in every book and when I am blocked in my writing I refer back to them to see if I’ve gone off course. One of the building blocks of the 12 steps is Tests, Allies, and Enemies. These can be interwoven throughout the story and help to reveal different aspects of the character. Meeting with the Mentor is a wonderful opportunity to show character growth within the story. 

In my other October release Identity Unknown, my hero has lost his memory so meeting with the Mentor in the form of people from his past helps him, and the reader, discover who he is. Using Allies and Enemies as a way to draw out intrinsic traits that reveal to the heroine who this man is was a wonderful device that allowed me to explore the characters in deeper ways.


5) Story Mastery by Michael Hauge. Hauge has it all. Story arc, plot, and characters. I highly recommend reading his books and, if possible, attending one of his workshops. I have learned so much from his methods on building story, from the logline/pitch to the very last line of the book. Hauge and Vogler have worked together and teach together as well. A potent combination of learning. They have a DVD of their combined methods and show how they complement each other.  Hauge also has forms that help to organize and deepen characterization. 

6) Techniques of the Selling Writer by Dwight Swain. This is the best book on writing fiction that I’ve ever read. I can’t stress enough how important it is that authors read this text. It can be a bit dry but worth devouring. I have two copies, one I read and reread that is highlighted and written in the margins on and a pristine copy for when the other disintegrates. 


7) The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. This is a great resource for showing how your characters love and feel loved. It’s also a good resource for personal growth. If your hero is constantly seeking ways to fix things (Acts of Service), the heroine can realize that he’s showing her his feelings even if he’s not saying them. Or if your heroine’s encouraging words (Words of Affirmation) make the hero feel special, he can understand that she is showing him she cares. Using the Love Languages is a wonderful way to enhance characterization.

8) Character interviews—peeling back the layers of the character, like the layers of an onion. I first heard of this from author Melissa McClone. I ask my characters to tell me their story. I write freehand whatever pops into my mind. Then I ask the characters to tell me their secrets. This can be anything from large scale to incidental. It all helps to round out the character and make them more three-dimensional. It’s also important to keep track of the physical details of your characters and their backstory. There are many different character sketch templates out there to choose from. I tend to write it all out longhand during my interview process. As well as find photographs of the character’s likeness to keep on my desktop for easy reference while I’m writing.


9) Observe Life—okay this seems like a no-brainer, but it’s important to watch how people interact, their body language, their mannerisms, the inflections in their tone of voice. This is a great way to pick up nuances of character that will add an extra layer of believability to your characters.  People-watching is an extremely valuable way to spend some time. Jot down notes of your observations and what you perceive to be going on in the people you’re watching. Though, a word of caution, don’t be creepy or obvious about it. You’ll lose the natural moment and could get in trouble.

This is by no means an exhaustive list and I’d love to hear from other authors if there’s something that works for you. And from readers (and authors), I’d love to hear some of the most memorable characters you’ve read and why.

In honor of Seekerville's Birthday and the upcoming Christmas holiday, I’m giving away one grand prize gift pack with my two new releases, Identity Unknown & A Family Under the Christmas Tree, plus a light up angel ornament, chocolate, a book bag and a journal, (compliments of author Pamela Tracy)!  

And to three additional winners, copies of the Love Inspired Suspense Classic—2 books in 1 volume—Double Cross and Double Threat Christmas. Per Seekerville guidelines, winners announced in the Weekend Edition.

Terri Reed’s romance and romantic suspense novels have appeared on Publisher’s Weekly top 25, Nielsen’s Bookscan top 100 and featured in USA Today, Christian Fiction Magazine and Romantic Times Magazine, finaled in RWA’s RITA contest, National Reader’s Choice Award contest, ACFW’s The Carol Award contest. Contact Terri @ www.terrireed.com or P.O. Box 19555 Portland, OR 97224

Harlequin has a HUGE sale going on until October 25th, so catch up on your Terri Reed Love Inspired Suspense here for $1.99!

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In this heartwarming tale set during the Christmas season, a single father and a fashion photographer are brought together by a young boy and a mischievous Bernese mountain dog—but first they must learn to set aside their differences if they are willing to let their relationship bloom.

David Murphy never knew much about kids. But when his brother dies unexpectedly, David is granted custody of his six-year-old nephew, Troy, who he’s only seen once a year since he was born. He already has his hands full running his business, and he has no idea how to help the grieving boy. When Troy runs off one day, David finds him at a park playing with an adorable and rambunctious Bernese mountain dog—who leads him to Sophie.

Sophie Griffith has spent her life travelling around the world as a photojournalist. She has never stayed in one place for long, and her new assignment—helping her grandmother for a few weeks—is just temporary. Once Christmas day comes, Sophie is off the hook and can leave for a new adventure. Caring for her grandmother is a piece of cake—but caring for her new Bernese mountain dog, Riggs, is a different story. It doesn’t help that Riggs strikes up a friendship with a lost little boy one day at the park—and leads her to David.

Neither David nor Sophie have time for romance. But as they spend more time together, they start falling for each other even though they know it can’t go anywhere. Sophie will be gone after Christmas, and the last thing David needs is another distraction as he tries to comfort Troy. But as their faith and growing love for the boy and dog unites them, they wonder whether it’s more than a holiday romance…and maybe Troy might finally get his Christmas wish for a family.