Thirteen years ago, my husband and I bought a fixer-upper. Since then, we’ve always been saving for a different house-related project. Sometimes there’s an emergency, like the time our downstairs bathroom ceiling caved in, and we’ve had to reprioritize the project list. For years, I’ve dreamt about renovating our master bathroom. It’s been the project that usually gets relegated to the bottom of the list. However, the pink walls and pinker tile from the previous owner are at the point where this renovation is now at the top of the list.
When I thought about this project, I discovered five of the steps mirror the list for a beginning writer.
Research. When you renovate an area of your house, you research your dream vision for that space. My husband and I have been looking at tile colors, countertop surfaces, and cabinet designs.
When you decide to write, you first narrow the focus of what you want to write. I’ve always loved reading cozy mysteries and romances. My grandmother would bring home stacks of Harlequins, and I’d devour them in between my visits to St. Mary Mead or Sleepyside-on-Hudson (Miss Marple and Trixie Belden, respectively). However, I’ve always plotted out romances in my head. So when I decided to write, I knew I wanted to write tales of happily ever after rather than mysteries. Once you decide on the genre, there’s research for your novel’s setting, characters’ professions, and other questions that pop up while you’re writing.
Plan a Budget. My husband and I developed a case of sticker shock at the first business we consulted about renovating our bathroom. Since that firm is not in our budget, we will interview other service providers until we find something that will fit.
When I decided I wanted to pursue writing as my profession, I discovered Romance Writers of America and Georgia Romance Writers. Both of these organizations sponsor fabulous conferences, which allow me a chance to network, learn about craft, and pitch to editors. Thanks to RWA and GRW, I learned about business plans. A written business plan is an underutilized but essential part of a writer’s toolbox. One aspect of mine is creating and sticking to a reasonable budget. The plan covers everything from upfront investments to ongoing items. Initially, I purchased a laptop with Microsoft Word. I also downloaded some free apps such as Pomodoro Timer. I try to save a certain amount per month for dues, program and conference fees, contest fees, and other writing expenses.
Form Your Team. Once you research what is within your reach and figure out how much you have to spend, you can build a team to make the renovation a reality. My husband and I are currently interviewing bathroom designers and contractors.
Even though the act of writing itself is solitary, it helps to have a team. My husband is my biggest supporter. He has said he knew he was married to a writer before I acknowledged I was a writer. My critique partner, Jeanine, joined GRW at the same time I did. We’ve supported each other along our quest to get off unpubbed island. She also introduced me to Seekerville after she attended the RWA 2013 workshop several of the Seekers presented. I have learned so much from this blog, and I value the relationships I’ve developed with both Seekers and Villagers. My team also includes members of my local chapter, GRW. My first critique came from a wonderful author, who took her time explaining what head-hopping is and why it can distance your reader from deep POV. More than that, this author led me to an important realization. If I want this to be my career, it’s up to me to learn about the industry, the meaning of certain terms and how to take my craft seriously. Since then, I’ve also added beta readers and accountability partners to my team. I truly appreciate and cherish everyone who takes her time to contribute on my writing journey.
Time for Renovating. Once the research, the budget, and the team comes together, it’s time for the actual renovation. Even though we’re not at this point with our bathroom, my husband and I have lived through furnace replacement, window installation, and siding replacement.
So too comes a time when a writer has finished with preliminary preparations, and it’s time to sit in the chair and write. When our siding was replaced, there were times I wanted to pull out my hair at the sheer noise and messiness involved. Most writers experience a similar day to this, once in a blue moon. The messiness of the first draft sneaks up on them or there’s a day during plotting where nothing seems to come together. Just as the noise would subside and peace would reign again during the siding renovation, so too do writers get over those days. Prayer and friends go a long way.
Enjoy the Finished Product and Then Dream About Your Next Project. Someday my husband and I will have a renovated bathroom. There will be a week where we just appreciate what we have before we figure out how much we need to save for our kitchen remodel.
After I actually write and edit my book, I take a minute to appreciate the journey. Since I’ve started writing and tell people I’m a writer, I hear one of two comments or questions. The first is “where can I buy your book?” The other one is “I’ve always wanted to write a book.” It takes time and dedication to sit down every day and finish a novel. So writers, when you type “The End” at the end of a revised version of your work, take time to celebrate. You did it. You accomplished something many want to do, but few actually finish. Once you celebrate, get back on that horse and start your next project.
Although much of this post was rather general, I’m glad to answer questions about business plans or how to find a support group if you live multiple hours away from a local writing chapter. (By the way, you’ve found Seekerville. That’s a great start for your writing journey.)
For readers, can you apply any of these steps to reading (for instance, creating a budget for all the great books out there)?
For writers, what is the most challenging part for you (researching, planning a budget, creating a team, writing, or giving yourself time to appreciate what you’ve done before you move on to your next project)? If you already have a team in place, tell us about that support team.Leave a comment today and Tanya will provide a $15.00 Amazon gift card to one randomly picked commenter. Winner announced in the Weekend Edition.
Tanya Agler is a write-at-home mom who lives in Georgia with her husband, four kids, one Basset Hound (Vera), and one rabbit (Gandalf). She writes a mixture of inspirational category and sweet contemporary Southern front porch romances. A member of Romance Writers of America and ACFW, she is the current Vice President of Programs for Georgia Romance Writers.
When she’s not writing, chauffeuring her children or folding laundry, Tanya loves classic movies (preferably black and white or anything with Cary Grant) and enjoying a cup of tea alongside a good book.
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Let's talk book budget because I already know what mine is....very limited, lol! I hoard my gift card balance like my life depends on it, being very choosy what books I'll buy with it. It has to be a special one that I simply can't live without (for my keeper shelf or part of a series). Good news is, I've found many sources for either getting a discount price or my local library (physical or ebooks). I've even done purchase requests via my library and they've often bought those books and I'm the first to read them :-) Now, I much prefer the real deal so I often wait for the price to drop on Amazon (or any other retailer). I also have a NetGalley account which is win-win for me....I love to review so this feeds both my reading appetite and the author gets a nice review in the process. All this makes me sound cheap or that I'm looking for free books, in reality, I know what I can and can't afford to pay for a book.
ReplyDeleteForm my team: I have reader friends on various blogs I follow and Facebook. They read many of the same ones I do and quite often feature ones I've not yet heard about. I love reading their reviews and finding out what books they recommend. I trust their judgement when it comes to Christian fiction. We love to talk books and I value them :-)
Enjoy the finished product: Like I said, I love reviewing books. I'm on several author street teams and it's satisfying to me when I get done with the book and can write something up. I bask in a job well done for the author and myself.
I love how you compare home renovation with writing Tanya & I can see the similarities :-) It's always great to get into the mind of an author and how they see things, it gives new perspective to me as a reader.
Please toss my name in the tool-belt for the gift card chance. Thanks so much!
Trixi, I love libraries as well, and I have used their e-reader services. I especially love my library's digital library around vacation time when I can download an extra book for each of my kids to read.
DeleteThanks for stopping by Seekerville today.
Trixi, you are NOT cheap. You can't review books if you don't have books to review. I also use the library for my Christian fiction fixes.
DeleteKathy Bailey
Hi Tanya:
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed your analogy of writing being like renovating a house. I think there are many additional useful ideas that can also be derived from exploring this analogy.
Indeed, I found your fixer-upper approach to also favor bringing a novel that has been turned down (and stored under the bed) back to life once a writer's skill levels have been brought up to where one is publishing on a regular basis.
I feel that 'building the new house' also provides a good analogy for writing the first novel. This would involve picking the right location/setting. Selecting a style that fits your life situation. Building the ideal home to meet your needs. Having a solid building plan would be a must. Blueprints/outlines would also prove helfful. Getting the proper help when licensed workmen are required.
In the end there is the joy of looking at an empty plot of land and dreaming about all the wonderful homes that you could make become a reality.
A good analogy opens the door to many more ideas. Thanks, I found your post today to be very thought provoking. I'm still thinking of ways it throws light on the subject.
Vince
Vince, thank you. I love the part of your comment about dreaming about all the wonderful homes. So many times before I wrote my first novel, I would walk and dream of different story scenarios.
DeleteAnd getting help is a must. My husband and I have now owned this home for thirteen years, and we are learning the questions we need to ask service providers when we sit down and talk about the renovation project, something we didn't know how to do properly for the first couple of projects. So, too, writers learn what questions to ask of qualified people who take time out to answer them about their profession and how to get the details of the book more accurate.
I'm actually very good at sticking to my budget in general. Books come under essentials.
ReplyDeleteMary, I just cracked a great big smile. In my house, there are books in every room so they are definitely essentials! Thanks.
DeleteI think your analogy was great Tanya. I believe it works for a non-writer as well as a writer. I believe it could almost be summed up in one word...discipline.
ReplyDeleteBlessings,
Cindy W.
Cindy, Thank you for stopping by. You're right about discipline, and how that word impacts so many areas of life.
DeleteGood one, Cincy W., you are so right.
DeleteKB
Welcome, Tanya! I loved your analogy. I struggle with giving myself time to relax between projects, but I'm working on it. My support team has been my blog followers. I never asked anyone to read my book or write a review, but they've been so supportive and encouraging. I'm very blessed. Thanks for visiting today!
ReplyDeleteJill, thank you. Whether it's relaxation or a reward (even something as simple as sitting down with a book you've been saving to read on a special occasion - does anyone else do that besides me?!), I think it's important to appreciate what's been done before moving on.
DeleteWith home renovation, it was a little harder to do that with the siding at first. But now when I see the lighter color on the house when I pull into the driveway, it can lift my spirit a little to know that was a small improvement to the house. I'm glad you have a supportive team around you.
I love the comparison between home renovation and writing! Though I'm not a writer, I can totally see that.
ReplyDeleteAs a reader and a reviewer, setting a budget is very important (especially with four children). Free and discounted books, the library, NetGalley, and some street teams have kept my TBR river flowing.
I also enjoy forming a team. I love the energy and excitement of being a part of a street team, influencer team, and review team.
Because the best part is....enjoying the final product!!!
MH, Fellow mothers of four unite! I, too, have four kids.
DeleteAnd you're right. Finding that book you don't want to put down is a great way to enjoy any day. Thanks for stopping by.
Another mom of four raises her hands!!!!
DeleteMary Connealy is a mother of four and Ruthy is a mother of...wait for it...SIX!!
Mom of four here, too!!!
DeleteTanya, since we were married over 40 years ago, my husband and I have been inveterate DIYers. That's back in the stone age before HGTV. I don't think I've ever lived in a home that didn't have a bag or two of power tools, paint samples, or work gloves shoved in the corner.
ReplyDeleteSo it is with writing. Wonderful analogy! I always have a project at some stage of development. Even those early, unpubbed or half-finished manuscripts are like paint colors that looked awful once I rolled them on the walls.
Your post also reminded me we're all "under construction" in God's eyes, some of us more than others. Thanks for stopping by today!
Barbara, thanks for stopping by. Your comment about HGTV and paint colors reminded me of a line from a funny movie called "Mr. Blandings Builds His Dream House." Myrna Loy describes in great detail to the painter the shades of the colors she wants on the walls. When she's out of earshot, the painter yells, "Blue, red, yellow, white, etc."
DeleteThanks for stopping by. And thanks for the reminder we are all under construction in God's eyes.
LOL...Sounds like a fun movie.
DeleteGood morning, Tanya! Thank you for such an insightful post. I especially liked that you reminded us to take time and enjoy the finished product and appreciate the journey. It's so easy to get caught up in the ups and downs of the writing journey and forget to appreciate the accomplishment along the way.
ReplyDeleteI'm headed off to work, but I sure wish I could stay home and dig out my Cary Grant DVD's. Your post has made me want to watch Mr. Blandings Builds His Dream House.
Hi, Rhonda! Thanks so much. You're right in writers facing many ups and downs. That's why I think a small celebration is a good thing. It doesn't have to be much. Maybe an evening with a good book, or a couple of episodes of a TV show you put off watching so you could finish the book.
DeleteYou have Cary Grant DVDs! If you haven't watched Mr. Blandings, I recommend it.
Yes, Mr. Blandings is one of my favorite!! My daughter and I love Cary Grant.
DeleteGood morning Tanya! Love seeing you here at Seekerville.
ReplyDeleteJust last night my husband and I were talking about all the renovations we'd like to do to our house.
We built our house 15 years ago, doing some of the work ourselves. One thing I regret is we didn't build a garage at the same time. We have tools and paints stacked in corners like Barbara.
Connie, thanks. It's fun to talk and dream. I hope you are able to get some of your renovations planned and finished. Good luck with your writing.
DeleteHi Tanya, it's great to see you here on Seekerville! What a good analogy. You've given us something to think about. I love peach muffins and tea. I'm going to be thinking about your muffins and post today.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing!
Hi, Jackie. My husband makes great muffins, whether peach or blueberry. His scones are even better. Hope you have a great day.
DeleteI just had breakfast and now I'm hungry again...
DeleteWelcome, dear Tanya. I love a guest who brings muffins. I'll add pumpkin cream cheese muffins to the mix.
ReplyDeleteAnd I will admit, I am always under construction. Constantly striving to improve
Right now I'm working my way through Janice Hardy's new Conflict book.
What are you reading? (I say this knowing you are working your way through craft books this year!)
Oh and praying for a win in the Maggies this weekend as you are a double finalist! Pinch of Cinnamon is a favorite of mine!
I'll have to check out this new Conflict book. Is it good? What's one thing that's stuck out from it so far for you?
DeleteHi, Tina. I just finished Jane Porter's Writing the Bestseller. I love her workshop on Playing Nice with Your Dragons. It was a compilation of essays from different romance authors, and some are excellent. I am about to start Janice Hardy's Understanding Show, Don't Tell. It was a birthday gift from my husband. I will probably ask for her Conflict book for Christmas!
DeleteSally, read Show, Don't Tell first, then pick up Conflict. Janice is a guest in Seekerville in December and will share more on the new book, then.
DeleteJane Porter's got a book. Okay, off to get that.
DeleteJane Porter is a fabulous writer! I never knew she had a writing book. OOOH please put me in for the drawing. Will it add it to my writing wish list :)
DeleteYay! I have that one already in my kindle. I will read that one and then this one. Thanks! I need to make a list of all the craft books I have. And then read them. And then apply them. Well, you get the picture. Now if I could just get that picture into my stories...
DeleteTanya, what a great analogy. Building a writing career, or a reviewing career, has to be intentional. You need a blueprint. Some people just mush around and get lucky, but that's not most of us. Thanks for your insight.
ReplyDeleteI, too, love black-and-white movies. Cary Grant, Jimmy Stewart, John Wayne. Rosalind Russell and Hepburn/Tracy. What fun! Also anything where Bing Crosby plays a priest.
Kathy Bailey
Dear Kathy, I love Going My Way where Bing plays Father O'Malley. It's one of my all time favorites! And Rosalind Russell! I love her strength and willingness to stand toe for toe with anyone.
DeleteBlueprints are helpful in writing. For me, with four kids, a schedule and a schematic of where I'm going is a must. Thanks.
Good points. I have a routine, finally, and I have a paltry budget for contests. Conferences are out this year, maybe next year. I have more discipline, especially since I semi-retired. Building a team continues to elude me, although I do have a supportive crit partner and supportive church and extended family. We'll see. These are definitely the components needed to build a writing career, thanks for reminding us.
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Dear Kathy, You're on the right track. A supportive critique partner is a true blessing. And your family is a great resource. My husband not only takes over when I am fortunate to go to conferences but he's one of my first resources about medicine and medical procedures. Family members can be great resources for connections for someone to interview for research for a book. My husband's best friend has helped me whenever I have questions about computers. So that's a good start.
DeleteFun post, Tanya. The actual process is my struggle with writing. I am so close to finishing my first draft, but not quite there yet. It doesn't help that I wrote an entire scene that apparently didn't get saved, so now I'm trying to rewrite it. I really hate when that happens. But I will get there.
ReplyDeletePlease put me in the drawing for the Amazon card!
Sandy, Ouch! I have been there with computer issues. Keep writing! Count me as today's cheerleader. You can finish the first draft! And then comes the fun part: editing! Positive thoughts and lots of prayer.
DeleteI can't say I really have a budget. I don't go crazy though. I'd love to win a gift card. I have books to order.
ReplyDeleteDear Cathyann, I love gift cards. I try not to go crazy in a bookstore, but I do like reading back covers and finding new authors to put on my to-buy list. Thanks for dropping in.
DeleteTanya, great to see you! Love this post. I feel I am under construction in so many areas! As a reviewer, I went out and discovered street teams, reviewer teams, Netgalley, Litfuse, and individual authors in order to get books to review. I've made so many wonderful friends in the process. Who knew writers were regular people? Being part of a team you find out so many things.
ReplyDeleteThen I became a writer. Lots and lots of research is involved. I have no idea about a budget. At this point conferences are out. Our institution has free access to Lynda.com, so I check out courses there, as well as books on kindle to learn craft or other things.
Team: I don't think I have one lol. My son is a very first reader when I start a new book. When I get a few pages down of the main point of the book and get dialogue or a scene or something, I'll share it with him to get his feedback. He's so encouraging. And my best friend, Sandy. I'll send her the first chapter once I get it completed. She'll offer big picture feedback. I'll incorporate it, work on the next chapter. Send that to her. And repeat. I'll do that through 3 chapters, then not send her anything until I get farther along. If it wasn't for her, I wouldn't have stayed with writing. She read the first part of the story I'm working on now and had nightmares lol. I took that as a compliment.
I would love to add a critique partner to my team, but have no idea how to find someone. Still working on that. I don't write want the people I come in contact with around here want to read.
Hi Sally, glad you dropped by. Not only are writers regular people but so are agents and editors. What I've loved about the writing communities I've found is how supportive other writers are.
DeleteI think writers can learn from reading other books. Craft books are also a good place to start if you can't attend a conference.
Sandy sounds like a great resource.
My advice about critique partners is to look outside the box. When I went to my local library yesterday, I discovered the county system now hosts a critique group. Also there are online critique groups (I haven't personally tried this option so I cannot attest to them). Certain organizations, like ACFW which has a Scribes group and RWA which has a critique match up group, also facilitate this.
Have a great day.
Tanya, I admire anyone who has the tenacity to turn fixer uppers into great houses! We've lived through a remodel of our master bath and love the results. There were so many choices, all expensive. But you get what you pay for. Same with writing. There's always a cost in time and effort and yes, money too. And you're handling both beautifully! Thanks for sharing this terrific analogy!
ReplyDeleteCongrats on two finals in the Maggie!! Pulling for you!
Janet
Janet, I agree you get what you pay for. We found that out the hard way with our first renovation project at our house. We hired a general contractor who subcontracted the work, and now we know to ask a lot more questions.
DeleteThank you for the Maggie mention.
Hi Tanya! Fun seeing you here in Seekerville. I loved how you tied together home renovations and our craft. I'd have to say the thing I've found the most grueling is the amount of research I've done on publishing. There is so much to learn and at times, it feels downright overwhelming. Just like a renovation, there comes a point where it has to get worse, before it can get better. So, when information bombardes me, I take a step back and put it all in perspective. I'm learning and growing and those rarely come without a few aches and pains. Good luck on the Maggies!!
ReplyDeleteJosee, you've grasped a very important concept. Writing is no longer just sitting down, cranking out a book and sending it off. Writers are writers, marketers, and so much more. Publishing is one aspect of the business, and I believe it's important to keep an ear out to what's happening in the industry.
DeleteI tell my husband at the start of a project when there's a big dumpster full of discarded material, it's the tip of the iceberg but it will get better. As I'm starting edits on my latest, I feel a lot like that as there's a lot of pruning before it will get better.
Have a great day.
You are so right about TEAM. I have many different teams for all the different reasons you need writer teams. I am grateful for all of those writers, published and unpublished who support me.
ReplyDeleteHi, Tina. I never realized how valuable TEAMS are until I received my first critique at Georgia Romance Writers and realized to take this seriously, I need to surround myself with people who know so much more than I do as well as people starting out because they often have exuberant cheerfulness that can renew the spirit. I, too, am so grateful for all the writers who judge contests, write blogs, speak at workshops, and so much more.
DeleteFinances are a problem for me. Living on a fixed income doesn't leave room for the cost of conferences, but I have been able to join ACFW. I also have Seekerville. I have learned so much and keep plugging away.
ReplyDeleteI am grateful for everyone here.
Wilani, I get it, I haven't been able to afford a conference for a while. So grateful for Seekerville and my crit partner, it's easy to get isolated.
DeleteKB
Wilani, I'm glad you are learning from ACFW. Seekerville is also great with so many writers offering their tips about a variety of topics and how to stay hopeful and persistent. Keep writing.
DeleteWilani, it's hard to find the resources to attend conferences! One of the young mom's in our writer's group (stay-at-home-mom of three delightful girls) just posted a picture of her "2018-Mt. Hermon Savings Jar" with a $5.00 bill in it! Hopefully, she won't have to use it for something else! I just loved her enthusiasm and determination to start saving now!! Bless you and I, too, find Seekerville to be truly a God-send!! Take care!
DeleteTanya, thanks for this great post! We bought our house last year and have had a few large projects already. So I totally get that planning and prioritizing! Next on our list it to have some trees taken out (Irma was frightening with so many trees near our house).
ReplyDeleteAs for writing, the Seeker ladies and my critique partners are part of my team. Along with editors and my agent. I'm like you on being indebted to the writing organizations I belong to. They taught me just about everything I know! And nowadays, they inspire me to keep going.
Missy, glad you are safe after Irma. Yes, prioritizing is often a part of my husband and my renovation plans. I kept wanting the bathroom to be next but he told me the siding had to come first and patiently explained why.
DeleteI'm glad you've found a great team that helps you. Georgia Romance Writers has been a blessing for me, and I'm thankful for the Seekers and Villagers who show me the true meaning of persistence and diligence.
Great post, Tanya!
ReplyDeleteBook projects have taken precedence over home renovation projects for me this year. But two of my sons and my husband conspired together to give me a great Mother's Day gift - hubby paid and the boys supplied the labor to restain and repair our aging deck. It looks so much better now, and all I had to do was choose the color. :)
Book projects, though... One thing I've discovered that I really need to budget is time. If I don't stick to my time budget and schedule, this writing gig could end up consuming every bit of energy. At the same time, the time budget makes sure I have set aside enough time to devote to each project.
The result means that I meet my deadlines!
It was great to seeing you here in Seekerville, and I hope we get to meet up again at a future conference!
Jan, I so enjoyed meeting you at 2016 ACFW. So happy your family conspired for such a great project. Sometimes only having to choose the color can be such a relief.
DeleteI do budget my time. At one RWA Conference, Tina introduced me to the concept of timers and that's also been a great help for me so I keep on task.
Rooting for you to meet those deadlines!
Welcome, TANYA! Such a GREAT post!
ReplyDeleteOhhh, I could relate to home improvements. *sigh* We custom built our home almost 18 years ago. We designed it with lots of play space for a growing family at the time with tons of storage, a mini library, craft room, and home offices. I still love our home after all these years, but it's quite the pill to clean now that our youngest is away at college and we are semi empty-nesters.
Too, the kicker? We live smack-dab in Tornado Alley and in those 18 years we have been through multiple hail and wind storms and we've taken two direct hits from tornadoes. This summer we replaced the roof (again - 2nd time), as well as the garage doors, and all the guttering. I so empathize with all your home repairs and the mess that comes with that. Aaarrrggghhh
You're right. Writing is a lot like renovating. You nailed all the points. My challenge? Pushing myself too hard at times. Over the years, I've learned to give myself permission to step back and appreciate the journey...but that didn't happen overnight. I had to grow into it. Ha!
And side note: I LOVE the fact that you're a fellow classic movie buff! Who knewwwwww? ("Mr. Blandings Builds His Dream House" is one of my all-time FAVES.)
Huge congrats on your writing accomplishments. Cannot wait to read your fabulous stories!
Cynthia, thank you so much!
DeleteWe moved into our house before we had our twins. Space is a little tight, but we manage.
Two direct tornado hits? Ouch. So glad you are okay. Roofs can be replaced. You can't.
I'm very fortunate in that my WH senses when I push myself too hard, and he's a great asset in that regard.
Another classic movie buff! Hooray. I love Irene Dunne and Greer Garson, too. Myrna Loy is great in anything (Mr. Blandings and The Thin Man series).
I'm a sucker for TCM. And anything with Jimmy Stewart. Mr. Smith Goes to Washington, anyone?
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ReplyDeleteTanya! Hello friend! What a great post with super practical steps.
ReplyDeleteFirst I have to say that I love your bunny’s name and the fact that you have a basset hound. I had three at one time. They’re a hoot!
The most challenging part for me is creating a team but I’ve got an amazing start. Seekerville has been a priceless part of that venture and the catalyst for me finding the best ever critique partners (you know who you are) 😉 I would love to connect more but (yes here’s my excuse) sometimes it feels like I’m miles from civilization. Thank goodness for the internet and the ways we have of keeping up with friends and writing sisters. Nothing beats a face to face but it’s better than nothing. My husband is the best cheerleader I could’ve ever asked for. Without his constant support and willingness to take over the house chores and dinners, I’d be mess.
Sharee, I love my pets. Gandalf and Vera are a joy. Three Bassets at once? You had to watch your food and keep everything way off the counter probably.
DeleteCongrats on your LIS book.
The internet is great for connecting to other writers.
And my husband is on a panel of writing spouses at a conference I'm going to this weekend. He's been there for me, so I'm so glad you have a cheerleader beside you as well.
Oh budgeting . . . My husband is a bit fussy about budgeting, mainly in that gift money must go towards gifts for oneself (because when it was given, it was a substitute for a proper gift until such a thing could be obtained). It drives my frugal side crazy that gift money should not be used on something that can double as a business expense during tax time (like contest fees) or go toward fixing something that we would fix anyway, but I've begun to accept it as a guilt-free way of buying books. And fancy tea. Sometimes book-themed tea.
ReplyDeleteHi, Rachael. Fancy tea? I've discovered peppermint tea recently and like that at night, and am only now trying different flavors than English Breakfast or plain Lipton.
DeleteHope you find some good books to go with a good cup of tea. Thanks for dropping by.
TANYA, thank you for sharing these practical steps! Thanks to Harvey, our house is now being redone from the floors up. It's overwhelming! I wish I had an interior designer to help make decisions.
ReplyDeletePlease enter me in the draw for the gift card.
Caryl, I just sent up a prayer for your house during your Harvey renovations. Hope it goes well.
DeleteTanya, thank you for the prayers!
DeleteHi Tanya!! SOOO happy to see you blogging here in Seekerville and what a GREAT post!! :) Thank you for sharing - - you've summed up the writing journey perfectly with your analogy. And how clever you and your husband must be with all your home renovations (makes me tired to think about it, LOL).
ReplyDeleteAs a writer, the most challenging part for me is the research. I enjoy it, but I venture off on "rabbit trails" and get out of my story, which ends up consuming valuable writing time. If I would just research something, then go directly back to my story I'd stay focused. ;)
Your husband's peach muffins are YUMMY!! I love peach ANYTHING! (you might've already known that, hehe!).
Thanks again for this post, and I'm proud you're one of my Writing Sisters! (Waving to the others here today) :)
Hugs, Patti Jo
Patti Jo, I can still taste the peach from ACFW 2016!
DeleteWe've made some mistakes, but the siding turned out well and we hope to have an idea by the end of the year about when we can get our bathroom renovated.
Research can be fun, but that's one reason I don't write historicals. I know I'd never stop researching and sit down and actually write the book! I give myself a set time to research and then ask myself: does the story need more or is this something interesting I want to investigate further outside of my writing time?
A big wave to you, too.
Yvonne, you are one busy person. Best of luck with your fixer upper.
ReplyDeleteThink of how happy you'll be when you cross each writing project off your list. You can do it.
Tanya! I am so excited that you're here!!! I SNEAKED IN from the farm to see you, and this is just a wonderful post.
ReplyDeleteI'd call it DELIGHTFUL, but The Teenster thinks I overuse that word. I think (case specific) that when talking about Tanya Agler, it is absolutely, positively delightful!!! :)
I enjoyed the analogies... I've got 1.5 70 year old bathrooms in this house. They need help. Every time I save for one, something else goes wrong...
Now, don't remind me that I just bought 3 miniature donkeys... that's #farmlife
Whereas these bathrooms are just "life" and usable.
BUT SOON.
My goal is SOON!!!! :) At least one, anyway!
Tanya, this step by step makes perfect sense to me. Thank you for being here!
RUTHY! Miniature donkeys. How cute, well to those of us who don't run a farm.
DeleteThank you so much for being so supportive.
Well, you make it easy. You're hard-working, tenacious and normal. What's not to love, darling??? :)
DeleteAND THE MINI DONKEYS ARE THE CUTEST THINGS!!!!
Great post! I love that you point out how a good team is such an asset and support to a writer. As a book blogger/reviewer I've learned that I can't read every book out there, no matter how much I want to! Budgeting my time and prioritizing have been helpful in finding a balance.
ReplyDeletePlease throw my name in the hat for the giveaway! :)
Hi, Heidi. I remember worrying when I was in college I'd run out of books to read. Now I, too, have learned I can't read every book, but when I find a good one? Wow, I cherish the time I spent with those characters.
DeleteHi Tanya. What a fun post. I've got several fixer-uppers on my computer right now. It's a never ending process. Budgeting the time is the hardest part for me.
ReplyDeleteDear Cindy, Ah, those fixer upper writing projects. I understand too well. I went to Williamsburg last week, and my family dropped in on the chocolate making demonstration in Colonial Williamsburg. The docent explained time is more of a recent concept that back then they just did something until it was done right. Sigh. I understand your plight all too well!
DeleteHi Tanya! So nice to see you here and what a great post. I love your analogy. I once compared writing to hunting but yours works so much better! I've been under construction for such a long time!
ReplyDeleteLeAnne, Congrats on your Harlequin Heartwarming release!
DeleteHmm, hunting. I hope you don't mind but I'm hearing Elmer Fudd going "Duck Season, no, Rabbit Season." That's an interesting analogy, and I know you could do that justice.
Hi Tanya and welcome to Seekerville. What a great post for beginners and good reminder for all of us. And thanks for the peach muffins. Yum. They were good with my coffee. Have fun today and thanks again for joining us.
ReplyDeleteSandra, thank you. Hope your writing is going well, and it's a pleasure to be here.
DeletePeach muffins and English Breakfast tea! Perfect for my rainy autumn morning in New Mexico! Yum!
ReplyDeleteGreat points on your remodeling post. I struggle with the messiness of the first draft and the revisions necessary. What do I take out? Could this be clearer? Should I shorten the length? Is this side direction unnecessary? Right now I'm trying to focus on the important elements of my story.
I so agree with you about the value of the team. The Seekers and Villagers have given us an encouraging place to learn. Without the team support, I would not be where I am...even if I'm still in the cluttered part of renovating...but I can anticipate enjoying the finished product because of the connections we've made in Seekerville.
Thank you, Tanya!
Hi, Sherida. I'm currently in revisions on my latest WIP. Some hints I've found useful include making sure you put it aside for 2-6 weeks so you see what you have on the page instead of what you think is on the page. Also reading it on your Kindle or on paper sometimes helps.
DeleteI totally agree about the team support of Seekerville.
Thanks, Sherida.
I love this analogy. It totally makes sense to my Fixer Upper addicted mind (watcher of TV Show, not actually doing it myself.) I hadn't heard of Southern fiction until recently when I read The Hideaway by Lauren K Denton and now you've got me wondering what the difference between Southern Fiction and Southern front porch fiction is?
ReplyDeleteKav, thanks for dropping by. Southern front porch fiction is just my brand. My critique partner pointed out one of my strengths involve scenes that take place on the front porch, and most of my books are set in Southern settings. So that was the tagline I created for my brand.
DeleteI haven't had time to watch too much HGTV lately. However, when I was pregnant with my twins, I watched a lot of HGTV, including many episodes of House Hunters.
Thanks for dropping by.
Probably the thing I have the hardest time with is just sitting down and writing my story due to my unfortunate tendency to be easily distracted (ooh, a butterfly...), but I've had problems with all the things on the list.
ReplyDeleteMy sister is an author as well, and we'll critique each other's stories, and talk a lot about our books helping each other brainstorm. If I'm stuck in my book I'll go ask her for her take on it.
My dad is a computer whiz and he publishes my books for me (saving me a ton of money). He also edits my stories for me.
And my brother says that I'm his favorite author, so he will proofread my books for me.
Nicki, wow, what a supportive family. That's great.
DeleteI'm easily distracted as well. That's why I've started using a timer and only writing for a set period of time. During my breaks, I read craft books or check FB, but when those minutes say work, I try my best to focus. Some days are easier than others -- :)
So glad you are assembling a team around you.
Hi Tanya:
ReplyDeleteAs a reader budgeting for book purchases is not a problem. Now if only the library would also provide a free electrician to put up a new fan in our den, that would be splendid. I'd even be happy to return the electrician to the library the next day. : )
Vince, I'll move to your county when they start checking out electricians :)
DeleteOne thing you mention that I don't do and need to do is celebrate THE END. I am going to make an effort to do this, because you are right. IT IS HUGE!!!
ReplyDeleteTina, I've learned this from Seekerville and GRW. Ruthy pointed out the importance of engaging in a mini-reward system. I do have trouble with this, but I've started to try to enjoy the moment of finishing the book before moving on. It can be something as simple as enjoying an episode of Doc Martin or reading a book I've been saving for a special occasion (I'm weird - I keep a special book to read on my birthday and one on Christmas).
DeleteHi Tanya! I'm always buying a house that needs renovations, so I loved your analogy.
ReplyDeleteThanks for mentioning taking time to appreciate what you've accomplished. I often fail to do that in both my renovating and writing. I shouldn't, because it takes away so much of the joy.
I think I'll go relax with a nice cup of tea!
Hi, Terri! I love tea. It's my morning drink of choice.
DeleteSometimes it's easier to enjoy a renovation than typing THE END, especially for those of us still trying to get off unpubbed island. Still, I find a little reward gets me more energized for starting the next book.
Delightful post, Tanya! Love the analogy! I have children living with me who are in the beginning stages of building a home...they just signed papers on their piece of property!
ReplyDeleteI belong to a precious writing group that has been together over fifteen years...it is about more than writing...we are such a support to each other...in all aspects of our lives! It is such a joy to celebrate each one's victories!
My life has been upside down for many months, but is settling down and I feel like I'll be able to adhere to a more rigorous schedule in the coming days.
Thanks again for sharing your remodeling and writing journey!
Kate, thanks for sharing the info about your writing team. Fifteen years? That's amazing. I'm so glad you have that support system for your writing endeavors.
DeleteBest of luck to your children as they begin building their home.
Great analogy, Tanya. And welcome to Seekerville.
ReplyDeleteI know today's post is primarily about writing, but I can't help but chime in. I've been saving to remodel for years and there's always a reason why we can't do this or that or the other.
My husband and father-in-law is a building contractor in new construction, so they both hate the thought of remodeling. After 30 years of marriage, I've come to the conclusion that I'll get one shot at this remodeling gig, so plan to make it count. :)
Pam, thank you so much for the warm welcome.
DeleteWith my house, I really treasure the renovations as we save for them first, then make them happen. So often we have something else come up (four kids, one of whom has a rare medical condition), so I'm appreciative when we are in the midst of a renovation.
I'm also so appreciative of writing time as well.
Tanya, is your fixer upper a really old house or just one that needs updating? I'm always fascinated with Victorian houses but imagine they might need electrical and plumbing updates and that's got to be expensive. I'm a fan of HGTV so I'm "in the know." LOL Those houses are probably like those first manuscripts I wrote. Those require going back to the "studs" to make them marketable.
ReplyDeleteJanet
Janet, we bought a 25 year old house, which meant many things were just starting to fall apart. I love Victorian houses, and those are probably even more expensive. Our house is now approaching the 40 year mark. So not very old, and we've now done a lot of the renovations that aren't apparent at first sight - windows, furnace, AC. Hopefully we'll get to the interior stuff sometime....
DeleteIn the meantime, I'm having fun researching and dreaming homes for the characters I write about.
Lovely, Tanya! So excited about M&M! I'll see you tomorrow. Expect hugs!!!
ReplyDeleteI'm sure you're as busy as I am getting ready, yet you still had time to blog and chat with us today. You are amazing!!!
See you soon!
Hugs and love!
Debby, I always have a hug for you!
DeleteThe good news about M&M is I have finished getting trivia night ready. I am putting the finishing touches on my editing workshop. So I'm looking forward to the conference.
Wonderful see you on the "other" side of the blog today, Tanya! Your advice is spot on--love the analogies to home renovation projects!
ReplyDeleteBusiness plans have always intimidated me. I'm not much into setting specific goals either, though--so maybe that goes hand in hand. I read a book a long time ago that contrasted goal setters with problem solvers, and I realized I fall into the problem solver camp. So when I contemplate a project, I think about what needs to be done and then figure out as I go along exactly how I'm going to do it.
Thank you, Myra.
DeleteYou approach problems head on. You still have a plan to get it done, and you realize what you have to do to make it happen. That's a huge step right there.
Hi Tanya! I like your comparison of house renno to writing. Right now, I'm editing. Does that qualify as writing renno? :)
ReplyDeleteSeekerville residents and friends of, form a major component of my team. I wouldn't be where I am today on my writing journey had I not found this wonderful place!
Thanks for sharing!
Lyndee, Absolutely. Editing is part of writing. I'm giving a workshop on editing this weekend, and I'm opening with how we hear write daily and think that means first draft words. Personally, I think editing is also part of the writing process. You're moving your story forward and making it flow better, making sure there's conflict, and getting rid of typos and unnecessary word repetition. All good writing stuff.
DeleteI always like comparisons. Good luck on both your house and your books.
ReplyDeleteBoo, thank you for dropping by.
DeleteThank you for such an interesting post, Tanya! We have a lot in common - old movies, Trixie Belden and Miss Marple, writing, and even home renovation. My husband has been working on our 1920s house (off and on, as time and finances permit) for several years now. We're down to the last couple of rooms. Can't even imagine what I'll do when there are no more saws, planers, lathes, etc. going. Actually, since he does carpentry work for a living it will probably never be quiet here, but I've learned to adjust. Since I get my house renovations done free, I can't complain, LOL.
ReplyDeleteYou said: For writers, what is the most challenging part for you (researching, planning a budget, creating a team, writing, or giving yourself time to appreciate what you’ve done before you move on to your next project)? Definitely the last one for me. Thanks for the encouragement!
Laura, Your house sounds lovely even with all the carpentry tools about.
DeleteThe overall consensus does seem the appreciating what you've done step is the hardest for writers. I wonder if it's because we already have the next book brewing in our heads and are itching to get started or if we're just not used to that step. Hmm.
Have a great week (and yes, I do love Trixie and Miss Jane, writing, and classic movies!).
Tanya, I admire you and your husband in "fixing up
ReplyDeleteyour house! We are older and could never do that. I live in NE GA not too far (I think() from you. I am an avid reader and would LOVE the A. card you are giving away!
Praying for a win in the Maggies this weekend. Hope to see more of you on Seekerville!
Jackie, thank you for stopping by. We're doing a little at a time. There are people in our neighborhood who are fortunate to have all the renovations done before they move in, but we're doing it as we are able.
DeleteI love reading, too! Right now I'm at my desk, surrounded by the books I need to get ready to pack to use in my editing workshop. I'm already looking forward, though, to my bedtime reading.
Dear Seekerville, Thank you so much for allowing me this opportunity today. I am heading to the Georgia Romance Writers' annual Moonlight and Magnolia's Conference tomorrow. I will try to respond to any additional comments later. Have a great evening. Thanks so much.
ReplyDeleteTanya! What a treat to have you with us. We're praying for your continued writing success and a great conference AND a first sale. XX
ReplyDeleteOH. MY. GOSH, TANYA ... you had me at Cary Grant!!!
ReplyDeleteActually, you had me WAY before Cary, but HE was the icing on the cake!!
GREAT post, my friend, and GREAT analogy!! My husband saw me reading this blog, and thought it was about Chip & Joanna when he saw the "Fixer Upper" meme! ;)
You asked: "For writers, what is the most challenging part for you (researching, planning a budget, creating a team, writing, or giving yourself time to appreciate what you’ve done before you move on to your next project)?
Definitely esearching (YUCK!) and creating a team (I HATE to ask people to do things for me!!), but I LOVE the "writing and giving myself time to appreciate what I’ve done" part!! I enjoy editing/proofing my books A LOT because it's fun to come at them from that angle. :)
Thanks for sharing your great tips, Tanya, and God bless you in your career!
Hugs,
Julie
Julie, Thank you so much. And Cary Grant had me when I watched Topper for the first time.
DeleteI've never watched "Fixer Upper." I've heard many good reviews of it.
I'd never guess from your books that researching is yuck for you. I love your books, and I felt like I was at a printing press in Brady and Beth's book.
Thank you, Julie.
Great analogy between the two. I had to laugh, because our master bathroom was the last to get a face lift in our house, too.
ReplyDeleteMy husband always seems to be updating something in our house, whether it is a fresh coat of paint, or rearranging furniture. Me? I style something and would be happy leaving it that way forever. lol
ReplyDeleteOur bathrooms desperately need a refurb, but it hasn't happened yet for this reason: the half bath is directly behind the hall bath, and we can't agree on how to update it. Hubby wants to knock down the wall and make one large bathroom. While I know that, with 4 of us, there is no way we can have only one bathroom in the house. Hopefully, we can find a design that suits both of us soon and give it the remodel it desperately needs.
Would love to be entered for the gift card--got a couple new releases I have my eye on! Thanks for the opportunity! :)
"giving yourself time to appreciate what you’ve done before you move on to your next project" is something I could do more. Thank you for the reminder :) And for the drawing - please do enter me.
ReplyDeleteMay God bless you and all of Seekerville!
I am a reader with a limited book budget so I definitely rely on my library as a source for reading material. Since libraries are also facing budget woes I will ask them to Interlibrary Loan if they don't have a book in their collection. I also take advantage of their book sales! I have been blessed to be on some Street Teams and that is another source and Seekerville has some great authors and giveaways.
ReplyDeleteBlessings!
Connie
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