Thursday, December 21, 2017

Running is Like Writing

with guest Sally Shupe.

Traveling this road to publication, I’ve made some observations regarding the similarities between running and writing, both of which I love. Turns out, they are alike. 

My word for 2017 is expectation. What this means to me is working toward something even as I am waiting for something to happen. I am actively looking forward, anticipating, what will happen when I run and when I write.

Whether you’re expecting a baby, company to visit, winning a race, or becoming published, you don’t sit and wait. No. You work toward something, even as you expect it to happen. You plan and arrange the baby room, clean house, run, write, write, write! If you’re running a race, you don’t just one day decide I’ll go run a 5k. You could, but I wouldn’t recommend it. 

You to train, practice, regularly run to finish the race. If you don’t put in the time, you can’t compete with other runners. If you don’t put in the writing time, you can’t compete when you do get a contract. There are deadlines. You must finish manuscripts. You plan. You don’t wait until the baby gets here to put together the nursery. Before he or she comes, you read books, read reviews on baby things, prepare the baby room. When you know company’s coming for dinner, you clean house, hide the laundry (don’t you?), prepare what you think they’ll like to eat and drink.

 It’s the same with writing: you research agents and publishing houses, read submission guidelines, talk with other authors. If you submit your work without checking these things, it’s a sure way to get rejected. If you want to read 300 books in a year, you can’t do that in a day. You plan ahead. How many books do I need to read a week to reach this goal? How many words do I need to write a week to reach my goal? How far, or how long, do I need to run?

If you expect to win a race, you have to run. If you expect to be published, you have to write. Don't spend your time watching other people.  

When I started running, I had to get the right equipment. Shoes, clothes, a watch. You definitely don’t want to run for longer, or farther, than you intended . Starting out, I alternated walking and running until I could run for 20 minutes. Then I worked my way up to 3 miles. The most I’ve run so far is a 7.4 mile race. My goal next year is to run a half marathon. One of the perks of running is when the second wind hits, I feel like I can run forever. 

For writing, I start with an idea for a story. Writing down snippets of dialogue, a scene, characters. My equipment is my computer or pen and paper, research documents, craft books. As with running, when I first start to write, I may only go short distances. Then I start flagging, breathing hard, the sagging middle hits. Desperate thoughts enter. Can I finish the story? Why did I even start? Feelings of aloneness creep in. Then I see glimpses of the finish line. That’s where this story is going. The second wind hits. In running, that’s when the steps come faster. A breeze rushes through my hair. I see the finish line. Breathing evens out. My focus is on finishing. I cross the finish line. Supporters, cheerers, all wait with high-fives.

Where were the supports along the journey? Whether running or writing, they’re the ones you come across in your journey and talk to. They have advice on running or writing. They cheer you on, celebrate all those little wins, counting down with you to the big win. And once you’re published? It’s time to look toward the next book, and then the next one. 




What have I learned on this journey? 

-Prayer changes things. It changes your thoughts, gives you insight, orchestrates that meeting you never could have arranged on your own. 

-Don’t get distracted by others who write faster or slower; get published; write more, or less, words than you do. Only you write like you do. Only you run like you do. Only you can write your words. If you spend your time watching other people, you won’t write. You’ll be discouraged. 

-If you don’t put in the work, read craft books, get feedback, you won’t reach your goal of publication. If you just write words with no focus, they won’t go anywhere. Same with running. You might cross the line, but it won’t be pretty. 

-Watch your pace. Just as you can’t run 26 miles in an hour, you can’t write a book in an hour. Space it out. Break it down. And breathe. 

-Watch what you’re putting in. If you eat a lot of fast food, you can’t run. Read what you write to see what’s out there, what works, what doesn’t. Research what agents and publishers are looking for. 


-If you get tired of running, change your course. Run somewhere different. Same with writing. Write something different. Write something for fun, take a break. Brainstorm. 

-Surround yourself with people like you, whether runners, writers, authors, agents. You need people who know the business, who understand what you’re doing and why. Tell them about your journey. If you feel alone, you won’t continue. When it’s cold and rainy, you don’t feel like running. Having that support system in place, gets you running. Same with writing. If someone is expecting your word count for the day, it’s harder to say I didn’t take time to write today. But if you can’t run for a while, or can’t write for a period of time, don’t beat yourself up over it. Take it day by day. The words will still be there. And I’ve had things happen that’s helped my writing that wasn’t in place if I’d continued forcing myself to write. I’ve also found when I can’t run for a few weeks, once I can get back out there, I can still go 20 minutes. I can still run for 2 miles. I just pick it back up and continue on. 

-When you finish the race, the book, it’s time to re-evaluate. Take time to see what worked, what didn’t, and start training for the next race or book. Evaluate how well you did, what, if anything, you need to change or approach differently. Can’t live on pizza for two weeks? Prepare meals ahead of time to clear time for writing. 

-Give yourself grace. I had to learn this one recently. After excessive water damage to our home, I haven’t been able to run or write. We’re still in the process of getting the house back together. But, I am looking forward to getting back to it. I’m outlining what I’ll be working on, planning when I can go running again. During this time, I jotted down ideas and dialogue for the story I’m working on. I even jogged through the house a few times. 

“Where there is no vision, the people perish.” Proverbs 29:18 Do you have a vision? Work out a plan to make that come to pass. Remember, God is able to do exceeding, abundantly more than we could ask or imagine.


 How about you? What do you do to energize your running, writing, or reading? When you hit a bump in the road, how do you get around it?

Seekerville is giving away this reader, writer or runner calendar to one commenter in honor of Sally's visit. Leave a comment letting us know you want to be entered for The Illustrated Bible Verses Wall Calendar 2018. Winner announced in the Weekend Edition.


Sally Shupe lives in southwest Virginia with her husband, two grown kids-a daughter still at home and a son nearby, and a whole bunch of pets: five dogs, three cats, a rabbit, and birds at the birdfeeder (and the mandatory snowman when the snow cooperates). She writes contemporary Christian romance, with two completed manuscripts and three more in progress. They are part of a series located in small town Virginia. 

When Sally’s not writing or working full-time, she is a freelance editor for several authors who write fiction and nonfiction; students working on dissertation papers; a copy editor for Desert Breeze; a content editor for Prism (just became part of Pelican); performs beta reading for various authors; publishes book reviews on her blog and with Valley Business FRONT’s monthly magazine; is a member of ACFW and just recently became a PRO member of RWA; loves genealogy, running, and crocheting.

Sally uses her love of words to write about God’s amazing love.


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87 comments :

  1. Hi Sally:

    Thanks, you've shown an interesting analogy of how running is like writing. It made me think of how writing a romance is like running a marathon.

    You need to prepare long in advance. Do your practice runs. Learn the course. Know where you are running. Carbo load the day before. Get off to a strong start, pace yourself, develop a second wind for the sagging middle, be prepared for the 20 mile point, black moment, when you hit the wall, and develop a strong kick to finish the race strong enough to sell your next book. : )

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    1. Hi, Vince! You've got to prepare to write just like you have to prepare to run. Hitting that wall is when you've got to keep going. You're almost there. Thanks for stopping by and commenting!

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  2. Sally I see two great points here... to drop the comparisons to others.... that's huge because God didn't put us into this world to compare us... he put us here to honor him and to our own selves be true. The world doesn't need to be filled with just Sallys and Ruthys and Julies... it needs all the other sweet people that add to the diversity of his kingdom! Fast, slow, dark, light, in between... All of us!

    And you said something similar to what Emily Rodmell tweeted a day or two ago... if you get stuck or bored, write something else. Break the logjam. Don't worry about for publication or not, just write something else. Such good advice from you... and Emily!

    Great post! And so fun to have you on this side of the lectern!!! :)

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    1. I'm still getting comfortable on this side of the lectern lol. Even in a family, there are so many differences. We're part of a bigger family, and there are still differences. It would be very boring if everyone were the same.

      I said something similar to Emily? Oh my. And I had no idea when I wrote this post that she was going to say that. I love it when God sends confirmation about something He's given me.

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  3. I am neither a runner nor a writer but a reader. My husband is neither a writer nor a reader but a runner :)
    I’d love to be entered in the drawing. Thanks.

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    1. Hi, MH! Thanks so much for stopping by and commenting! Have a very Merry Christmas!

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  4. Welcome, Sally...my favorite snow lover! As someone who runs and writes, this is a perfect analogy.
    I'm sorry to hear about the water damage to your home. We went through that a few years ago...it's quite stressful.
    When I hit a bump, I pray because you're right, it does change everything.
    Merry Christmas to you and your family. I hear you might get some snow.

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    1. I haven't heard anything about snow. It's supposed to be 50 and sunny today. I'm hoping to get to go run. I haven't been since this mess started 10/7. We'll see. Today I'm trying to figure out where the Christmas tree is going and get it put up. I have garland around the new kitchen cabinets, but that's the extent of my decorating so far. I didn't even get to send out Christmas cards this year. But I've received a few and I've hung them up.

      Prayer is what has gotten me through this water damage. God showed me so many things through this. I'm in the process of writing it all down. It's been very comforting! A few times prayer changed how I thought about something and instead of getting irritated, I felt peace. Merry Christmas to you and your family too! I am looking forward to time together and snow, lots of snow.

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  5. I am a walker, not a runner; I am a reader, not a writer but your post is applicable to all and you've offered some great tips. Thanks for sharing and I hope that you can soon return to your writing and running.
    Merry Christmas!
    Connie
    cps1950(at)gmail(dot)com

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    1. Hi, Connie! Thanks for your comment. I am looking forward to Christmas break so maybe I can finish getting things back where they need to be and find time to write and run. Merry Christmas!

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  6. Thanks for the post, Sally. I'm a walker, reader, and recently published/beginning writer. You have some great tips.

    Merry Christmas! Please enter my name in the drawing.

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    1. Hi, Leslie! Congratulations on being recently published! That is awesome. Merry Christmas to you too!

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  7. Great analogy, Sally. I am a writer, not a runner. Like Ruthy, I try not to compare myself to others as far as my writing journey. I have a post-it-note up on my cork board that says It Takes As Long As It Takes, and I wish I could remember who to give the credit to for that line, but it escapes me. It's not an excuse, but a fact. Things get in the way, and we can't beat ourselves up for wanting to participate in our lives outside of writing. Anyway, I don't suffer guilt when I'm not writing! I've done all the leg work, if I get to write, I'm happy.

    Hoping your plans to return to your two loves soon become a reality.

    Blessings,

    Marcia


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    1. Hi, Marcia! Comparison almost got the best of me when I first started running. We started as a group and it was easy to see who could run fastest/slowest. I am so slow! Once we were able to run 20 minutes, we started going on separate runs, because people ran at different paces. But as I kept at it, and got in longer runs, I felt good about myself. My pace has gotten a little better, but still not fast. But I learned to do it for the enjoyment, not to compare how this one runs or how that one gets to run every day. It's the same with writing. Each of us is on a different journey. Some write every day; some not so much. You've got to be happy with the way you write, and if you're not, you change it to make you happy. And when you have to miss, it'll be there waiting when you're ready. Sometimes that break is just what you needed to get a jumpstart. Thanks for stopping by and commenting! Have a very Merry Christmas!

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  8. Sally, I particularly love "Don't get distracted by other people." This is one of the trickier parts of writing, especially for the pre-published. We have to be aware of what's happening in the industry and celebrate our friends' successes, while putting on blinders, in a sense, to get our own work done. It's a balancing act, but in a sense no different from the rest of the Christian walk. We need to learn to appreciate others' talents without envying them. Romans 12:4, in one body we have many members, but not all the members have the same function. A lesson we need to keep learning in families, church, the workplace, writing, and the Christian walk itself.
    If I don't get back on here, have a great Dec. 21!
    Kathy Bailey

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    1. Hi, Kathy! Yes, being pre-published, it's hard not comparing our writing journey to others. But so true it's like our Christian walk! Each one is different and we bring our own set of talents. When we see ourselves as God sees us, and know He loves us, it puts peace and contentment in our hearts. Merry Christmas, Kathy!

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  9. Hi Sally, I have prayed through this writing journey. But it's so easy to get distracted by others. I like your advice not to get distracted and grace. Good things to remember as we end 2017 and start 2018. Thanks!

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    1. Welcome, Jackie! Getting distracted by others and not giving yourself grace are two big things I struggle with. But being content (which is being active and not sitting still) and extending grace to yourself are huge components to finding peace in your writing journey.

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  10. Good morning, Seekerville!! It's great to be here this morning. I'm looking forward to reading your comments!

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  11. SALLY, thank you for sharing! In our spiritual life, we are running a race to obtain the prize. I enjoyed your post. I have to remember to extend GRACE to myself and others.

    Please enter me in the drawing.

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    1. Yes, extending grace to others is part of it too. Sometimes we forget that part. We expect grace, but then don't extend the same to others. Great advice!

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  12. Sally, I wanted to say welcome! I've got to run right now (ha! perfect for today!), but look forward to reading your post later! :)

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    1. Hey, Missy! Run, run, run! Have a great day and Merry Christmas!

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  13. Sally, welcome to the speaker's box. I brought Gatorade and protien bars today. HA! Great to have you hostess today.

    I'd like to say that for those of us whose running days have passed..it's okay to walk fast. Just keep moving forward toward that goal.

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    1. Any forward movement is movement in the right direction. Whether it's flying, running, walking, or crawling.

      Thanks for the warm welcome, Tina! I will take one of those protein bars covered in chocolate with nuts. Okay, it's an almond Hershey bar lol.

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    2. hahahahaha. Hershey bar!!!!!!

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    3. Yeah, I haven't gotten the hang of gatorade or protein bars. That part of the post about watching what you put in, yeah, that was directed at me.

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  14. SALLY!!!! Oh my goodness, sooooooo fun to see you on this side of the blog my friend!

    And, WHOA -- what a FABULOUS post!! Talk about a workshop in a blog, girlfriend -- this is OUTSTANDING!! Sooooo many excellent points.

    You said: "If you expect to win a race, you have to run. If you expect to be published, you have to write. Don't spend your time watching other people."

    This is one of my downfalls, but I am working on it. :)

    ALL of the points are wonderful, but my faves are one and two:

    1.) "Prayer changes things. It changes your thoughts, gives you insight, orchestrates that meeting you never could have arranged on your own."

    Oh, AMEN TO THAT!! And thanks for putting it first because so many people list it last, which is out of order. Prayer needs to be the foundation upon which we do ANYTHING, especially if it's writing for Him!!

    2.) "Don’t get distracted by others who write faster or slower; get published; write more, or less, words than you do. Only you write like you do. Only you run like you do. Only you can write your words. If you spend your time watching other people, you won’t write. You’ll be discouraged."

    This was my Achille's heel for sooooo very long, but I am happy to say that God has helped me to grow in this regard, and although I still have a ways to go, I am making great strides and as a result, FAR happier with my writing and my life. :)

    Thanks, Sally, for providing such an indepth look at writing -- this is a keeper for sure!!

    Hugs!!
    Julie


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    1. Julie! Thank you so much for your support. It's different, but fun, being on the other side.

      I do a lot of watching other people and comparing, and wondering why my journey isn't like others. But our time spent on the journey is what teaches us, what grows us. Knowing how much work we've put into running or writing, makes the success even better. Putting in the time, the daily runs or word counts, makes crossing the finish line, or getting that book published, even sweeter.

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  15. Sally, I'm not a runner. I wish I were a runner. I admire people who run. But there is nothing about running myself that I enjoy...which is why I was shocked when I attended my first high school cross country meet to cheer on some students. The race was SO emotional...because every runner is giving his/her very best and pushing through obstacles, pain, heat/rain/cold to reach the finish line. And I love that cross country is about winning...but winning means more than being the first to cross the finish line. Winning means achieving a personal best, finishing with a quicker time than before. So it's a race against self and the best each runner can do. Your post reminded me of this when you warned us not to get distracted by another writer's pace, that we shouldn't compare ourselves to others. At a cross country meet we cheer each runner that crosses the finish line in his/her own time...including the very last runner who often gets as many cheers as the first...because the runner finished--no matter how far s/he was behind the first runner, no matter how difficult the race was, no matter how slow his/her pace was. I love that about cross country, and it's a good reminder to myself that my writing pace is my pace and that's okay. As long as I have a plan, the finish line will be in sight. The verse from Proverbs is perfect for your post! Thank you!

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    1. Hi, Karen! Thank you so much for stopping by and commenting! Each race is personal to the person running it, whether running, walking, writing, or spiritual. And each person wants to win, but winning is just crossing that line. Whatever that line might be for you. Whether it's being able to walk a few steps, run a few miles, write a few words or many. Once you accomplish that, that's a milestone for you that you can then progress from. And having supporters, cheerers, with you on the journey, makes it better. Our writing journey is personal to each of us. The obstacles we face, the things that stop us or hinder us from getting our word count in, whatever pain or weather we face. But we know when we get that story written, when we get published, there will be those around us who will cheer us on every step of the way. Just be happy writing. The rest will fall into place in His time. I love that verse from Proverbs! Merry Christmas!

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    2. Karen, what a great connection with cross country. My son has run cross country for four years and you're so right on every point. They see the big goal, the smaller goals both individual and team. And the hardest part is that loooooong race where so many hit that sagging middle and fade. Writing is very much like that.

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  17. Hi Sally! What a great post. You're so right that we see the goal but it takes a lot of every day moments to reach that goal. Those every day, writing through the I-don't-want-to-be-doing-this-today moments. But those pay off and are paying off even when we don't realize it. I love that God waste's nothing. He sees those sacrifices and struggles. And he can make beauty out of ashes.

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    1. Merry Christmas, Sharee! I love what you said about God not wasting anything. It brought this to mind: everybody has things in our past that we don't like, that we wish we could change, that we wish hadn't happened, but you know what? God uses those too. Nothing is wasted, not our pasts, not our present. He takes it all and forms it to our good. If we let Him. Some things you have to turn over to Him, you'll never understand why certain things happened or didn't happen. But when you do, you get such peace. You don't have to be in control, but He is. Beauty out of ashes. I love it!

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  18. Sally, it's great to have you post-side in Seekerville! Thank you for the inspiring post and all these excellent, savvy tips on meeting our goal, whether it's running, writing or reading.

    You wear a lot of hats, many I didn't know. So obviously you take your own advice!

    Merry Christmas!
    Janet

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    1. Janet! Thanks for stopping by and commenting! It's very different being on the other side of the post. As I was reading back over my post this morning, those tips still speak to me. I never really thought about wearing a lot of different hats. Thanks for pointing that out!

      Crocheting is new to me this past year. I love making baby blankets and giving them as presents. I made a big crocheted blanket and gave it to an 11 year old boy I came in contact with who'd said he'd love to have one. When I gave it to him, his eyes lit up. His mom told me he sleeps with it, he sits in the chair wrapped up in it while watching tv. I love it!

      Merry Christmas, Janet!

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    2. That so sweet Sally about making the boy the blanket...

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    3. Sally, that is a super cool story. You brought him happiness that will feed his sould for years to come.

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    4. Soul not sould. sheesh.

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    5. aww thank you, Connie and Tina. I hope so. I enjoy doing things like that and if he gets something out of it, even better.

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    6. Sally, your generosity made a difference for that boy. Obviously bigger kids still need a "blankie."

      Janet

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  19. So Sally, tell me about your normal (life for you is not normal right now, I know), writing training sessions. Do you write daily, at a set time? Weekend Warrior? Plotter or pantser?

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    1. I love writing every day. Some days I don't get to, but I find when I do it's not as hard picking back up where I left off from the day before. The first story I wrote, I wrote a majority of it when I was off during Christmas break that year. I've done NANA a few times, but only one time did I complete a story.

      Writing in the evening worked for me, but now that my husband is retired, that's been an adjustment too. I don't have time to get up in the mornings before work (I crave sleep, and I get migraines from lack of sleep, so I don't play around with my sleep lol).

      Now that the house has been cleared out and some stuff put back in, I have a dedicated corner for my computer desk that has my laptop on it. I am determined not to pile junk (er-stuff) on it. I have several writing books I'd love to put there so I have them at my fingertips as well.

      I am a definite panster. But I've realized I like to have bullet points to carve out the story before I start writing so I don't get bogged down with the what's next for the story I'm working on. I do tend to write more on Saturday mornings as I have the biggest chunk of time I could set aside on that day, but it tends to be evenly divided during the week. I also tend to write in spurts, as opposed to writing straight for an hour or two. I've found counting words at the end of a week instead of a daily word count doesn't make me feel as unproductive if I have a day, or more, that I'm not able to write.

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    2. Woohoo! You have your writing corner set up. Wonderful news!!

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  20. Wonderful post, Sally! These are excellent tips to keep in mind as we each examine the progress we made in 2017 and plan our goals for 2018.

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    1. Hi, Rhonda!! Thank you so much. Looking back and planning ahead are definites in planning future goals! Merry Christmas!

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  21. Hello Sally! So glad to see you at Seekerville today!!!!

    I sooo agree w/you about running being like writing. I haven't ran much this year, but I'm ready to get back started. The same things that motivate and discourage me w/running is the same as my writing.

    I used to really set high goals w/running by creating detailed goal charts where I ran further and faster. The problem was, if I had an off day or couldn't run, I beat myself up. 2-3 days like that and it could do me in. Writing's the same way. If I set my goals too high and then don't achieve them, I'm miserable.
    A few years ago I learned if I was having an off running day, to just walk and enjoy being outside. No more beating myself. You know, you are right. Even after a week or so, I'd jump back in and felt great. It made it where I could make running a part of my life and I loved it instead of it being a chore.
    I try to do the same w/writing. Write consistently seems to work better for me. I've written more this year than ever before and am planning for next year to be even better.


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    1. Hi, Connie!! Thank you for stopping by and commenting. I am so happy to be here!! Setting goals is one way to help you get more done, write more or run more to reach your goal. But when you can't get it done, you've got to remember to give yourself grace. And sometimes we're quicker to give others that grace and not extend that same grace to ourselves. If it's something you really want to do, finish, accomplish, setting goals, evaluating how to reach those goals, will help you get there. Hope you have a very Merry Christmas!!

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  22. I love this post, Sally!

    I admire runners...(I'm not one!)...but your advice to avoid comparing our athletic abilities with others....and how this also applies to writing....is great!

    I especially like your thoughts on "Give yourself grace." This year I've struggled to forgive myself since I didn't accomplish all I intended....and I didn't have a flooded home. I can't imagine your efforts! But as you said, fitting writing or exercise into your day as you are able, moves us forward.

    When I stumble? I remembered the amazing writing journey I have...now and in the future...supported by those understanding friends around me..."people like you, whether runners, writers, authors." Yes, these shared times keep the vision ahead bright!

    Thank you for the encouraging thoughts! Blessings!

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    1. Being supported by understanding friends-that is huge. We need those people in our lives. Shared times is what keeps us connected! You are very welcome! Have a very Merry Christmas!!

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  23. Welcome Sally!!! Merry Christmas!
    I don't think I need to do anything to energize my reading LOL Is there a way to stop when you are in the middle of the book :)
    Please through my name into the bucket for this beautiful calendar (2018 calendar is on my daughter's Christmas list :)

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    1. Hi, Natalya!! Merry Christmas to you too! There is no way to stop when in the middle of a book lol. My husband reads to make himself sleepy. If I read at 10 o'clock at night, I'm up until the wee hours of the morning trying to finish it! Isn't that calendar beautiful? It looks amazing!

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  24. Hi Sally! Welcome to Seekerville!

    Great thoughts today ~ I'm not a runner, but I have tremendous respect for those who are. Now, our daughter OTOH played varsity tennis throughout HS. WOW. As a diehard tennis mom, those thousands of sprints across the tennis courts left me breathless...because, of course, I lived vicariously through her. LOL

    Running differs from tennis, but I learned a lot about perseverance by observing the tenacity it takes to pursue what one loves. Talk about endurance and goal-setting!

    I agree, writing is much like running.

    Best wishes in this coming year!

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    1. Hi, Cynthia! Thank you for the warm welcome. This is the place to settle in and socialize, be inspired, and learn. Such a great place to be!

      I played basketball for one season in high school. Running up and down the court is hard work! You've got to be able to keep up. It takes a lot of perseverance and tenacity. It takes discipline and hard work. Much like writing! Merry Christmas!

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  25. Hi Sally. Enjoyed your post. Have a Merry Christmas. I would love to be entered for the calendar.

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    1. Welcome, Wilani! I'm glad you enjoyed the post. Hope you have a very Merry Christmas as well!

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  26. Hi Sally:

    Do you think there is (or have you experienced) a 'writer's high' that would be similar to a 'runner's high' -- which is very real and caused by endorphins? It would be nice to get into an euphoric state by writing.

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    1. I think that would be comparable to when the plot, words, and characters are all in alignment and your fingers are flying across the keyboard and the word count is multiplying without much effort. It's happened a time or two for me. That would be a great feeling to get from writing as you do from running. If you could experience it every time you write that would be great.

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  27. Thank you Sally! Great points. I miss running but am a walker these days. Both a reader and writer, though I read much more than I write. My best advice... trust God and pray. Works for every situation :)
    May God bless you and all of Seekerville!

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    1. Hi, Phyllis! Yes, trusting and praying works in any situation. Thanks for stopping by and commenting. Merry Christmas!

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  28. Sally! So fun to have you as our hostess today!!! And I love the way you compared writing with running and how important it is to do something every day to progress toward our goals.

    But, um, this "second wind" thing? I will have to take your word for it. When I'm walking for exercise, my "first wind" runs out waaaaaay too soon, so the second wind never even gets a chance.

    Yes. There you have it. I am a lifelong certified wimp.

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    1. Oh, Myra!! I'm sorry. I laughed. First wind running out way too soon-yeah, when that happens, I just stop. No wind, no run. Have a very Merry Christmas!!

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  29. Great job, Sally! Very encouraging post! Running and Sports and writing are so very similar! You did a wonderful job in your comparisons. I've watched my son turn a losing high school football team into three time section champs! He's very, very strict about each aspect of training BEFORE football season actually starts. His guys are FOCUSED!

    Thanks again for the boost today!

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    1. Welcome, Kathryn! Thank you! I love to encourage others. Focused. That's how you meet and exceed your goals! Merry Christmas!

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  30. Love the encouraging vibe flowing in abundance throughout Seekervillage this week. There's always a positive vibe but you and Debby have me deep thinking and hoping which is such a blessing. And definitely -- Prayer Changes Things -- is my motto. Even when it seems like things aren't changing I discover my attitude is.

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    1. Amen to that, Kav!

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    2. I love Seekerville for the encouragement and inspiration and writing know-how tips. Merry Christmas, Kav!

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  31. Loved this, Sally! Thanks for the encouragement! Learned so much in 2017 (most of it right here in Seekerville) and look forward to 2018. Btw, I enjoy genealogy research, too (a recent interest after doing DNA ancestry testing). I have to be careful though, because I can lose hours that way :-) The past is often just too fascinating. Merry Christmas!!

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    1. Hi, Laura!! Yes, Seekerville is full of knowledge and information. When I get started on genealogy, even just looking at stuff I've already researched, hours go by. It's worse than facebook. I love looking at the past. Merry Christmas!!

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  32. Sally, I'm late getting to my computer today! So nice to see your blog post. I didn't know you were a runner. I used to run. Loved to run, which I did for years. Due to a back problem, I'm now a walker. But my kids are big runners. Hubby was at one time as well. Now he walks with me. :)

    Loved what you said about writing and the comparison to running. Especially liked your comment about giving yourself grace.

    So sorry to hear about your water problems. :( Grace was needed for that, I'm sure.

    Wishing you a joyous Christmas!

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    1. Hi, Debby!! Thank you so much for stopping by and commenting! I've been running for about 3 years now I think. When I first started, I didn't think I was going to make it. My knees killed me. I didn't even know there were muscles in my knees. Which I guess there wasn't and that was why it was so hard! But now I get so much enjoyment from it.

      I have to keep reminding myself about the grace. A Dog Named George, that should be the title to a song lol. George is now in our record books. The dog who wanted to get a drink while we were gone got more than he bargained for lol. Merry Christmas!

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  33. Sally, I know it's getting late on the East Coast. Thanks so much for being with us today. STAY WARM!!! Oh, and dry too.

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  34. Thank you so much for having me today! I have enjoyed every minute of it! I'm now a link on the sidebar. That is so cool! I just heard they are calling for snow for us. I just might get to make that snowman yet. What happened to the scarf I made him last year?? I have no idea after the water. Hmm. I'll have to go look for it. Thanks, Tina, for letting me spend the day in Seekerville! I hope I get to return sometime in the future! Merry Christmas!!

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  35. Wonderful post today, Sally - - thank you!! You've made some excellent points, and I especially like your comment about surrounding yourself with people like you. Being with other writers (whether in person or online) is SO inspiring.
    I hope you'll have a wonderful Christmas!
    Hugs, Patti Jo :)

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  36. Sally, what a great reminder that anything worth having/doing take some time and effort. In this day and age of instant and fast, that's a good reminder!

    And I didn't know you were a runner! :) Cheering you on fro the sidelines!

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    1. I've been running a couple of years now. I don't count the first year as it took me that long to figure out how to run lol.

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  37. Sally, this is a wonderful post! Very inspiring. I fear I spend too much time watching others! Bad habit and something to work on in 2018. Like Patti Jo, I love your comment about surrounding yourself with like minded people. Truly helps! Merry Christmas!

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    1. That's been the biggest thing for me, surrounding myself with like minded people. In whatever you're doing they're the ones who will support and encourage you. Merry Christmas!!

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  38. Hi Sally,
    I've always thought writing was like a marathon - you just confirmed it! I took a break from writing fiction to write my memoir. It wasn't something I wanted to do, but I felt that God was leading me to write it. It was incredibly difficult at times and it took much longer than it should have. Your advice to write something fun is exactly what I'm doing now. My memoir is published, under the pen name of Alexandria Bagnell,and now I'm writing under my own name again, a romance novel. So much more fun!
    Thanks for your post. Please enter me in the drawing.

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    1. I love it when writing is fun. Thanks for stopping by and commenting. Merry Christmas!!

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    2. I love it when writing is fun. Thanks for stopping by and commenting. Merry Christmas!!

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  39. I'm sorry I'm late, Sally! I loved your analogy to running (though I'm not a runner myself!)

    The biggest takeaway for me is not comparing yourself to others. Each of us has a unique voice and message to share with the world. I'm so glad your home is coming back together. Merry Christmas to you and your family.

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    1. Josee! Thanks for stopping by. Once you find your unique voice and the message you're to share it all starts coming together. I'm so glad I'm almost at the end of putting the house back together. A few more boxes to sort and a little more paint and I'll be able to sit down and enjoy it. Merry Christmas to you and your family as well!!

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  40. Very well said, Sally. I missed this with Hubs in the hospital, but I think your words made my Saturday. Merry Christmas to you, the Seekers, and all Seekerville readers.

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