You Are What You Do
I am usually pretty light-hearted with my Seeker posts but I sat through a very good, very encouraging class about setting goals and being disciplined at my local RWA group.
The first official meeting after the New Year.
And our group has a lady, *lizzie starr, we call The Goals Guru. She's been on Seekerville before.
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Her lesson at our meeting was so encouraging I decided to put my own spin on it and share it with you. And I don't feel all that light-hearted about it. More like PASSIONATE.
First--why is this hard?
There are two things I always say a person needs to be a writer.
1. The strange and rare quirk of nature that makes you love writing. That makes you WANT to sit by yourself, makin' stuff up. This is not a normal way to conduct your life and anyone who can't do it should be content, even relieved, by that.
But if you are that kind of a person, then what are you going to do? You write!
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Almost inevitably we hear someone who is writing, struggling, being crushed in contests, and ravaged by editors and agents and they are DEVASTATED. Yes, it hurts and we all get it. So why don't we quit? I've known maybe people who DO quit.
And then...they go back to it.
People who enjoy writing are just incurable, honestly. You love it, it's fun, you've got a story to tell to the nations....so you write. If this is you, then you're already done with ONE thing.
2. Craft
That's it. We here at Seekerville have spent the last ten years with some encouragement posts, but mostly, craft. Yes it's endless and it's hard work. But what skilled job isn't?
Think of all the tricks of the trade that a surgeon needs to learn.
You think repairing a $300,000 tractor is easy? They are LOADED with computers. One zillion moving parts. Big, heavy iron that cuts your foot off if you drop it.
Teaching school? You think anyone's born knowing how to do that?
I've known great waitresses. Any job can be done with skill, with the craft.
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The point is...craft...there's a lot to learn but if you love to write you've got to learn it.
BUT the CRAFT part is far less fun than just sitting at the computer makin' stuff up. So there goes a whole lot of the JOY of writing.
And here we are
Bringing you SPEEDBO.
The best thing about SPEEDBO is it can help you rediscover the fun of writing.
Turn off your internal editor.
Take the craft you already have but right now, for 31 days, do NOT try and hone your skills, just use what you have and get words down on paper and do it for the LOVE of writing.
And do it EVERYDAY. Do it with Self-discipline.
Do it:
Because you are a writer. Writers write. You are what you do, so do what you need to do to be who you are.
Spend the next month relearning the joy of writing.
See if you can write words that make you laugh and cry and tingle with the pleasure of telling a story that's alive and well in your head.
DO IT!
That's the self-discipline.
I think we sabotage ourselves with worries and thinking of getting published and beating ourselves up for not being GOOD ENOUGH.
But for one month FORGET THAT and write a book for joy.
Write a book without beating yourself up.
Write a book for fun.
WRITE A BOOK WITHOUT UNDERMINING YOURSELF WITH DOUBT.
Sit down at your computer.
Turn it on.
Open that book document.
Pick a moment, right now, in your writing life, that gave you joy. Tell us about why you love to write, why you started, why you can't stop. Share it now for a few minutes and then GET TO WORK.
Turn it on.
Open that book document.
And write a book because, unlike many, many, many other people in this world.
YOU CAN!
Pick a moment, right now, in your writing life, that gave you joy. Tell us about why you love to write, why you started, why you can't stop. Share it now for a few minutes and then GET TO WORK.
Can't believe I'm the first to comment. Absolutely love this post. There have been times in my writing life I wanted to quit - or so I thought. I didn't and I can't imagine doing so now. Writing is part of me.
ReplyDeleteOne of my favorite times in my writing life was when my sister stopped in the middle of the manuscript she was reading for me and said, "Who named this guy Cedric?" He'd become real to her and she forgot I created him.
And then of course selling a novella thrilled me!
Terri, I love that. "Who named this guy..."
DeleteOnce My Cowboy reading "he thought" one of my books, looked up and said, "I've been to Yuma Prison. There are no bluffs like this, it's a wide, flat valley."
I look up and say, "What are you talking about?"
He said, "In this book, you've got it wrong----" Then he looked again at the book and realized he was reading a Louis L'Amour book.
I was never so honored in my life!!!
Did the West Coast fall into the ocean while I slept???? EEE GADS!!!! GWYNSTER??? WHERE ARE YOU??? SWIM, NEMO! SWIM!!!!!
ReplyDeleteMary, this is a wonderful, thought-provoking post that both helps and inspires... Thank you for sharing Lizzie's information, she's such a good inspiration.
I love writing. Even when the rejections rain down on my head (they don't make me sad, they make me mad and then I put my "I'll show you!" shoes on and get back to work with the theme from "Rocky" playing in the background because no one puts Baby in a corner!!!) :)
Even before that phone call came seven years ago, I pushed myself to write every day because I believed it would benefit me someday. I was working two jobs, full time and part time, and writing at 4:00 AM for two hours...
Cling to your work ethic and believe in yourself, in your dreams.
And write.
Ruthy, good morning.
DeleteI just keep coming back, in my mind, to the fact that so few people can actually write a book. That sounds strange but it's sort of weird behavior to sit and write a book. And so many people just don't have the right personality to do it.
We do.
That's a huge boost for us.
Or reason enough to put us in a special section of the old folks' home!!! "WRITERS' WING"... :)
DeleteNO RUTHY...besides, the Pacific ocean is COLD!! A person would freeze to death in a matter of minutes, lol! This West coaster went to bed early because of a cold that knocked me for a loop for the third time this year. Enough is enough already!! Thera-flu & lots of Immune support tea helps some & a lot of sleep. Though trying to read a book yesterday, I kept nodding off!
DeleteAnyway, just wanted to interject that this coastie is (barely) alive :-)
I'm still a greenhorn in writing and during the last two years I haven't been able to do any writing as I have been a caregiver to my Mom when I wasn't at work. I'm slowly coming back but I feel like I know nothing at this point. I will say, I have gone back and read some of the story "starts" that I previously wrote and I was quite surprised that I wrote them. They need editing for sure, but they inspire me to jump back in.
ReplyDeleteI can use all the books on craft that I can find. Would love to win.
Blessings,
Cindy W.
Cindy, my writing went on hold for caregiving also. And you know what? I am so thankful I didn't have a contract so I could devote my time to my parents. Go girl. The love of writing does not disappear. Those stories mull around in your head and when its time, you'll write. smile Hugs and prayers your way cause caregiving is tough.
DeleteCindy life can not only drain our creative spark but it can just leave us NO TIME.
DeleteBut if you're a writer, in your head and heart, you can do it!
Thank you Sandra & Mary. I do have characters running amuck in my head at times, usually when I'm trying to concentrate on a task. Besides losing my Mom/Best Friend, now my husband & I have the tedious job of going through things and getting her house put up for sale. She lived right next door and part of me wishes we didn't have to sale it, because it was hers. But we can't and I must move forward. I'm trying to do Speedbo but issues keep raising their heads. But to quote Yoda, "Do, or do not. There is no try."
DeleteBlessings,
Cindy W.
Great post, Mary! There's been too many joyful moments in my writing life to pick one, but if you twist my arm, I'd say it's fellow writers and readers. This amazing journey has brought so many encouraging people into my life. I've been very blessed.
ReplyDeleteJill isn't that the truth. Seekerville is like a haven for me. An online coffee klatch for writers.
DeleteSo agree with you!
DeleteThank you for your post, Mary! I've been writing all of my life and I get antsy when I don't write enough. My favorite writing moments have been those I've shared with fellow writers at conferences...when you talk about writing and characters and plot issues. I've also loved celebrating contest wins or finals with fellow writers, especially my critique partner. And this March, I've made a 20K writing goal for Speedbo. So far, 1225 words down. Only 18,775 to go! Thank you for your inspiration to keep plugging away...one word at a time! :)
ReplyDeleteThat's so true. Writer's just speak their own lingo.
DeleteI'm sure school teachers do to. Obstetricians. Fry cooks. And usually no one wants to hear the inside chatter, that's why other writers are so great.
20,000 words is a great goal. GOOD LUCK! SELF-DISCIPLINE
DeleteThanks, Mary! Because I started my day with your inspirational article, I knocked out another 1156 words today before 8:30am. :) I'm one step closer to finishing my romantic suspense. Thank you again for reminding me of the importance of writing every day. Self-discipline=finished book...
DeleteWhat a great post! So motivational! I think it is so easy to get caught up in the mechanics and the pressure of publication and forget about the joy of story. That is what got me started in the first place. I am a reader and the thought of bringing joy to someone else...the kind of joy that books have brought to me...well, that is a piece of heaven.
ReplyDeleteSherrinda, that's so true. I started writing just as sort of a dare almost. Or maybe a challenge. A friend wrote a book and I was so impressed and loved talking with her about it. One day she said, "Write your own book."
DeleteAnd when I did, I found the passion of my life. I just loved it.
Thank you for your post, Mary! Finishing my first book and completing a story about characters who'd been living in my head for two years was pretty special. Finaling in the first two contests I entered and reading the feedback took my breath away. It was the validation I needed that I was on the right path but above all, "meeting" amazing women through Seekerville, primarily, has been my greatest joy. Tina has gone out of her way, time and again, to answer questions, point me in the right direction and share her wisdom and no-nonsense, get-to-work attitude.
ReplyDeleteI'm going to get some writing down before my kids all wake up!
Great going Josee.
DeleteTina's the best, isn't she?
DeleteWe're all so blessed to have her in our lives.
And finishing a book, then finaling in a contest. Two huge accomplishments.
I finaled in a contest with my...second book. The one that, ten years later would be released as Clueless Cowboy, it was just the motivation I needed to keep going.
All along the way to publication I'd get just enough to keep working.
Except I'd have probably kept at it anyway. I was hooked.
Mary, I was praying the other day for another validation booster shot. I'm revising my first book, working on my second and sometimes I feel like there's just too much to take in (contests, queries, conferences, classes, growing your presence on social media, etc etc etc.) I think that's the hardest thing about just starting out: knowing where to focus your energy because with 3 kids and perfectionist tendencies, I end up not doing ANY of it and scrubbing my grout with a toothbrush, you know what I mean?
DeleteI know what you mean about being hooked. I asked myself the other day, could I just walk away from writing and never look back? I couldn't even contemplate it.
I would love, love a signed copy of your book, Mary! Love your books. Each one teaches me so much about writing and how things work together. A reward for sitting in a chair and writing this month.
ReplyDeleteOne thing that has resonated with me is you can't edit something that's not there. Write it, and then go back and edit. I learned from my undergrad degree in English, where I got to read and write papers for my degree, that I loved the editing process. I'd write a paper, turn it in early so I could get feedback from the professor, and then go through comment by comment and decide what to do with them. It was so much fun! Thanks for this great post! Just what I needed!
Sally, I went to college and have a bachelor's degree in mass communications. The man focus was on journalism.
DeleteAnd for all that time and money, I came away with this one thing...the best writing is re-writing.
Yes, mostly probably money down a rathole, then. LOL But I do love the revision process.
Hi Mary!
ReplyDeleteI love goal oriented posts! I've been setting writing goals for years and really believe its the way to keep your writing on track and growing. I usually set an easily attainable goal, a mid-level goal and a hard goal to make me stretch my writing skill set.
Rose, I love this. Three levels of goals. EXCELLENT.
DeleteMary I needed this today. I have been doing pretty well with my goal, but today that editing bug bit me and it took all I had to flick it away!
ReplyDeleteI have loved story all my life! I don't know if I have a moment in my writing life that gave me joy (no writing contests or peer groups at this point but I did bawl when I finished NaNoWriMo a few years back). Right now just getting to let lose and see how things are going to play out is my big kick.
I feel pretty joyous that I am sticking to it this month with 7,522 words so far.
Thanks for keeping the goal alive!
Woo hoo that's over a thousand a day. Way to go and yikes, I'm not jealous. I'm not jealous. LOL
DeleteKelly writing THE END can be a huge joy. Your joy in writing doesn't have to come from someone else!!!!!
DeleteMary, great post. I love it. Yes, there have been those times when I thought I wasn't going to write anymore. Then something comes along (usually some comment from Vince) that reminds me that I am a writer. LOL Thanks for the reminder.
ReplyDeleteSandra I often tell some poor devastated writer, who's had some really disappointing rejection. Just quit. Just get out if this hurts too much.
DeleteBut I'll bet you can't.
Yup. Been to that breaking point and back again. Look what WOULDN'T have happened if I'd given up!!!
DeleteWhat a great way to describe the urge to write, truly is one of those things that once you discover that you love to write, there is no way to stop. I love having a couple of projects to work on simultaneously, that keeps my joy going, right now as I do speedbo for drafting my new novel, I'm doing the last revisions on another novel, I love to see the progress of my work when one MS has a foot out the door while the next one is being formed.
ReplyDeleteYoxani, I used to write in two genres, contemporary (still mostly cowboys) and historical.
DeleteI also wrote a series of cozy mysteries. I found that energizing. Different lengths of books, different settings, mindsets.
Novella help me do that now, some.
I write something different then find my brand books are more fun.
This hit home Mary. Many times I have to tell myself "write like no one's going to read it." Then I can let go of all the rules and craft and just enjoy.
ReplyDeleteIt is fun, Cindy. If I ever get a free stretch of time, I'm going to do that. Just write something for fun.
DeleteI once wrote a gothic romance. I had SO MUCH FUN with it. I sat at the computer and laughed. Trying to make this poor woman do ... ahem .... unwise things, like go into the ATTIC, in a spooky old house where she KNEW one of the people staying there was a murderer.
I'd just giggle while I wrote because it was so FUN.
Mary, I love your words: "Write a book for fun.
ReplyDeleteWRITE A BOOK WITHOUT UNDERMINING YOURSELF WITH DOUBT."
Thank you for these today!!
Missy what is that saying? It's a meme on Facebook I've seen.
ReplyDeleteIt says something like, "Teach a woman to read and she'll have fun every day. Teach a woman to write and she'll be plagued with self-doubt for a lifetime.
You are what you do and I am 1040ES. TAXES. Oh, my gosh, I have never been so thrilled to return to SPEEDBO. Thank you, God.
ReplyDeleteLOVE your new cover. Congratulations on your latest release.
AAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DeleteIf you ARE what you do and you are doing taxes, that is a very discouraging statement. LOL Unless, I suppose, you're a tax accountant.
I keep writing because it makes mad to have an idea and not to able to get it on paper. I may or may not get published, but by golly, if my books are never to be traditionally published, it's not going to be because they were just ideas.
ReplyDeleteCONNIE, I LOVE THIS PASSION. And the stories in your head, NAGGING you to get out. Isn't that just the plain truth.
DeleteAMEN!! KICK BUTT, CONNIE-MEISTER!
DeleteMy favorite line from your post, Mary:
ReplyDelete"The strange and rare quirk of nature that makes you love writing. That makes you WANT to sit by yourself, makin' stuff up."
We are a rare bunch indeed!
You know, Myra, we really are. Not everyone can do this.
DeleteAnd here we all are and we can't STOP.
It's who we are.
Thank you, Mary for your post. I need all the reinforcement I can get. This virus/scam thing is getting me down. I've had to go through the back-door to get to these posts, but well worth it. I did see that I won a book...who do I get in touch with?
ReplyDeleteThat aside, while I'm trying to get my computer back to normal, I'm doing everything by hand. I can't let all my thoughts go up in the air! While my word count is low, I'm taking time also to study more about plotting which is a weak spot with me.
I've been "dabbling" in writing for over 40 years, but just recently got serious about it. I have two published writer friends who push me, and then I have Speedbo. Just this morning, one wrote to me..."And keep writing not just studying plot. The first draft is always crappy for anyone. XXXXX just sucks now, but if I keep pushing and finish the first draft then I have something to work with to make better.
Work each scene. YOU HAVE A STORY....keep going!"
Wise words.
MARCIA All winners should send their name, address, and phone number to claim prizes. Send to Seekers@Seekerville.net
DeleteSorry a virus is haunting you. REally, sincerely sorry. Blick.
They're right about the first draft being crappy. I revise and revise and revise to de-crap my books. But don't let that bother you, accept it and write it and fix it. Absolutely normal.
Mary, thank you. I did find the Weekend Edition, and sent in my info.
DeleteAnother great line..."If writing were easy, everybody would be doing it."
I started creating pirate stories for kids 17 years ago. They were always on the edge of their seats when I told them, They began to tell me suggestions for future stories. I was in charge of the children during an annual preaching conference. I would always have a story prepared for the first night. then the kids would beg for another one the next night, Of course I had no time to write during the conference but the story formed in my mind before the next night and I would tell them a second story. The next day on the way home I would then write out what I remembered telling the kids the night before. What is amazing is that when I see those kids today, they are all telling me how much they loved the stories. I am now rewriting those stories because I used a copyrighted felt board to tell the stories so the names and places have to have new names. One day I hope to be able to publish the stories of Christian pirates.
ReplyDeleteMy body is still dictating what I get done but I am pushing through so far in this speedbo I have written 7,000 words.
Have a great day everyone.
Wilani you wrote them down, good for you! 7000 words on March 6th YAY WILANI!!!
DeleteI find I have to really motivate and discipline myself writing the first half of a book--the last half is just fun. :) Thankfully for Speedbo I'm to the fun part, all the groundwork is done and my characters are out to play. Excited for you latest book!
ReplyDeleteThat's so great, Angela. I find I get 'in the zone' toward the end of a book. By then I know my characters well, I've got the end all visualized, at that point you can just pound out words telling the story. And since I tend to end with action, for some reason, though it's hard to write, it's also sort of FAST to write, as if I'm writing about galloping horses and desperate chases and slinging guns, and writing as fast as the horses are racing along.
DeleteThis post is yet just another of the million reasons I LOVE Seekerville (AND the Seekers!!). Marvelous, Mary!! The joy of writing is the best thing about SPEEDBO, for me personally. The story I'm crafting this month is totally different for me (even out of my comfort zone, LOL) because it includes a foreign country and royalty. But oh what FUN I'm having with this - - all thanks to the Seekers having SPEEDBO! I finally sent my "internal editor" on a vacation and am NOT letting her return until March 31 at midnight. ;)
ReplyDeleteI wanted to add that my copy of LONG TIME GONE arrived a few days ago - - LOVING IT!! :)
Setting out a warm peach cobbler, pecan pie, and a pan of fudge if anyone needs sugar with their Speedbo. ;)
Hugs, Patti Jo
Patti Jo it just makes me smile so wide to listen to you talk about fun.
DeleteRoyalty and foreign countries, GOOD FOR YOU. I love regency romance, but I find the thought of writing it so intimidating. You are a brave girl!!!!!!!
I write because I can't NOT WRITE!
ReplyDeleteEnd of story! :)
Great input today, Mary. Thank you!
If only we had time for more play and less stress with our writing. But there's never enough time...
Not once the deadlines start, Debby and, since that was our whole, ultimate goal, we probably shouldn't complain.
Delete(well not full time anyway) :D
Debby, I'm curious if you've ever started a story and realized it just didn't interest you anymore? Did you ever throw it out and just start fresh? Or have you gone back and tweaked it t where it would be interesting?
DeleteIn my WIP, I'm not "feeling it" between my H/H. Then I think, maybe it's just the story I don't like? I LOVE my characters from my first book and FEEL the chemistry but with my 2nd, I'm having a hard time getting into my own story.
I'd love your insight!
Josee, I'm struggling with my next book. Can't get the characters to talk to me and reveal their story!!! GRRR! I'm doing all sorts of "extra" writing about their GMC, etc, to find the nuggets needed for the story to move forward.
DeleteStories often don't grab me by the heart until I can find that inner conflict, the wound that needs to be healed, the universal truth. Once those things are in place, then the story moves and I enjoy the process. Trying to find those truths are becoming more of a challenge...perhaps because I'm attempting stories that are a bit outside the norm. This third one especially. What was I thinking?
And I just realized that the deadline for my proposal is not March 30th, but March 20th!!!
HELP!!! :)
Josee, in your case, look at the GMC for your hero and heroine, and especially the INNER conflict. Perhaps you need to tweak those elements for the story to come alive.
Thank you, Debby. I've been digging deep into their psyches. I've got her figured out, I think...but him, not so much.
DeleteI'll pray for you to get your proposal done to your liking!
Thanks for the prayers! :)
DeleteMARY, terrific post! I've had numerous people tell me they can't imagine sitting down and writing a story, my eldest being one. Even so I don't think I appreciate what a rare and wonderful gift it is to make up people and tell their stories.
ReplyDeleteAll the people I've met through writing have given me joy beyond measure. To hold a book I've written has given me joy. The flip side of joy is anguish and writing has given me that too. The reason we writers have to be strong. Every day I have to banish the sissy in me. LOL
Janet
Janet, the flip side of that is, I have many people say, "I think I've got a book in me."
DeleteI used to find that interesting. Now I roll my eyeballs. "Well get back to me when you have WRITTEN IT!!!!!!!!!!!"
PS I don't actually say that out loud. Poor people who have to deal with me. And I don't roll my eyeballs physically, more like mentally.
DeleteLOL, know you'd never be mean. Except to your characters!
DeleteJanet
Mary, I cannot tell you how much I LOVE this post! Such great encouragement.
ReplyDeleteWhen I feel ravaged by the process, I've learned to give myself permission to step away for a time. I confide in a few faithful prayer warriors who I know will pray, and that in itself grants peace.
Last year, I dbl-finaled in the Genesis and met some really great folks in the process. (Still hoping to meet LAURA C in person and so many others this year at ACFW.) A BIG highlight came when DEBBY G hugged me afterward and offered wonderful words of encouragement. (And yes--I fangirled.) LOVE her heart and her sweet spirit.
Thank you, MARY, for this today. Onward! :-)
Cynthia, honest I laughed out loud when you said, "When I feel ravaged by the process."
DeleteOh if that is not PERFECTLY put. Seriously, it's almost poetry. We all have that.
MARY, I'm glad I added levity to your day! Lol (Isn't it the truth?!)
DeleteI'm smiling and sending more hugs, Cynthia!!! I loved connecting at ACFW!!! And did I mention how beautiful you are...and were in that gorgeous dress!!!
DeleteDEBBY, I'm smiling. It's a color I never wear, but the red one I waited to go on sale? Gone! My size sold out and I was at a loss. The one I finally found was truly a last minute choice. SO MUCH FUN to see you. (((HUGS again!)))
DeleteGood morning, Mary! Great post. I've recently discovered the joy of an alpha smart. Remember those??? I won one years ago at an RWA meeting, but I rarely use it. This weekend, I was stuck in the car with my husband, who was tired of doing things alone because I'm always writing. On a whim, I grabbed my AlphaSmart. It's smaller, lighter and more convenient than my laptop and was able to pound out words faster than I thought possible. Why? Because I couldn't surf the internet. Because I couldn't go back and edit all the words before. I just wrote for the love of it. Thank goodness I have Seekerville to help me fix it AFTER I write it. :) Love having to work on that craft stuff!
ReplyDeleteWell that's great, but I'm wondering about your husband. Didn't he sort of feel like he was still doing things all alone? LOL
DeleteAn Alpha Smart is probably one of the best ways to just charge on forward. I can't imagine not being able to go back, go over and over a scene.
I love my AlphaSmart, too, LeAnne. So portable. So easy. :)
DeleteAh ... just the kick in the butt I needed, my friend, so THANK YOU!!
ReplyDeleteYou had me at the word, "PASSIONATE"!! But is it just me, or is the word "PASSION" IN BOLD AND "ATE" NOT bolded??? If so, is this a subliminal message to devour writing??
You asked: Pick a moment, right now, in your writing life, that gave you joy. Tell us about why you love to write, why you started, why you can't stop. Share it now for a few minutes and then GET TO WORK.
I love to write for so many reasons, but the most important one is that God teaches me His lessons through my writing. My books are pretty spiritual, and honestly, I don't start out that way, thinking -- okay, how can I incorporate a really powerful spiritual moment? Nope, I'm a lot more shallow than that. I start out with passion for romance. You know, that sizzle between a man and a woman? That gets me into the story every single time, but then that smart ol' God uses the story to get to me!! Which is why I always go through at least 12-30 Kleenex every single time I proof one of my books. Not because they're that good, but because they speak to my heart. AND, I hope, to some readers' hearts as well.
Another reason I love writing is that I LOVE words. Scrabble used to be my favorite game till my kids got in college and starting winning games. That's when I stopped playing with them because, yes, I am that bad of a sore loser. :(
But I swear on a stack of Bibles that whenever I look into a Thesaurus to come up with another word to better describe what I'm trying to say, I get an actual tingle in my mind and a rush of adrenaline in my body, no joke. It's moments like that and the spiritual ones that convince me I ADORE writing.
Hugs,
Julie
Hey, Julie, love you girl. All the passion for romance and writing and GOD! What a powerful combination!
DeleteGood morning all! Hi Mary! Love this post. A great reminder that writing is good stuff. I think one of my favorite things about writing is seeing characters come to life. In my first book, I had a character that my husband liked so much he threw a fit when I threatened to kill off the character to move the plot into a new direction. I had to remind him, the character wasn't REAL. Giggle.
ReplyDeleteThat beloved character you wanted to kill wasn't a husband was it? They can get sensitive about that.
DeleteOnce, My Cowboy was reading one of my books, I'm thinking maybe The Husband Tree, with Belle Tanner beginning the book by burying her third worthless husband?
My Cowboy, who's around writers a lot and has heard that many writers use their own lives in books, looked up, kinda nervous, from the book, and said, "Am I the hero that comes riding to the rescue? Or am I one of the dead, worthless husbands?"
Giggle, a little healthy writer fear. And actually, yeah, the character was the husband. AHA. You're so wise MARY! That's why he was so freaked out. Note to self, do not kill off husbands in books. Got it.
DeleteI would love to win the new release Long Time Gone.
ReplyDeleteI should set goals and get caught up on all the things I am behind on, if it is even possible......
HI Abist! Thanks for stopping in! You're name's in the drawing. I know, there is always more to do, more goals to set. I do well with WRITING goals but the rest of life...I'm a little less of a success.
DeleteDinner? You want food? What time is it?
Thanks for the encouraging post, Mary! Writing is fun--no other way to look at it. We're blessed to be doing exactly what we want to do and I wouldn't change a thing.
ReplyDeleteI'm throwing caution to the wind with this year's Speedbo and not paying much attention to the rules--just my story. Talk about fun! :)
Good for you, Jessica. If you want to, check in often and tell us how you're doing.
ReplyDeleteHi Mary
ReplyDeleteI don't know when there was a time I didn't write. In sixth grade I drew and wrote two kids books that I read to the Kindergarteners (was a English project our teacher gave for ONE book. Of course I did two because it was so fun). But I even wrote before that.
The coolest part of my writing journey was when I actually got to the final stage of the Killer Voice contest - it was a sort of "Golly, I CAN write good enough to be published eventually."
I sort of drained my muse to empty during that writing blitz and am only now sort of recovering. I'm still working on the balance between caring for Guppy and Hubby thing with writing time. Family is winning at this point. But I am attempting baby steps at 500 words per day for Speedbo. Haven't met goal yet, especially this weekend - both Gupster and Daddy got sick. I didn't even get to wander to the computer to check Seekerville *heavy sigh* The bright note is that I KNOW I can get words out - I'm still lacking that self-discipline I guess.
But you are correct - I cannot NOT write.
You are a huge blessing Mary, especially to me. Well, it feels that it's just me, but I know there's tons of other too. :) Put my name in the Stetson for one of those books...
I'm so impressed with authors who are writing with young children........although Guppy is getting grown up isn't he? Is he in school yet? I never did any writing, hardly any READING when my kids were little.
DeleteYour posts always hit it out of the park, Mary, even for readers! P.S., I love all your postings of "cows & calves" on Facebook lately! You are such a cowgirlie! Enjoy being a mama!
ReplyDeleteWE HAD OUR FIRST RED CALF!!!!!!!!
DeleteWe had a little drama with a calf yesterday (not the red one) and I'm ANNOYED because it distracted from our first this year, red calf. ATTENTION STEALER!!!!!!!!!!
I can think of a lot of moments in my writing life that gave me joy (and almost as many that brought me pain). But the moment that I will mention now was when I was first writing my first book. I was sitting outside on my deck it was a gorgeous summer afternoon and I was writing. I paused in my writing and stared up at the roof of my house trying to figure out how a person would be able to climb down from it (for my characters who had found themselves stranded on someone's house of course). I don't know why that is such a pleasant memory, but it was. Perhaps it was because it was such a beautiful day out, perhaps it was because everything was so peaceful (I was the only one outside with the exception of my dogs, my four brothers were all inside), or maybe it was because at that moment I was finally starting to think like an author.
ReplyDeleteAs Mr. Darcy put it (paraphrased by yours truly), I cannot fix on the hour, or the scene, or the plot twist or the words, which laid the foundation... I was in the middle before I knew that I had begun.
And that about says it with my love of my writing. I always wanted to write, my older sister who was a writer inspired me. Maybe one of the things that makes me so in love with writing was that I could not do it previous. Sure I was six, seven, eight years old; but I was completely incapable of making stories or writing them. When I finally broke free of my lifelong writer's block at the age of eleven it wasn't even a question as to whether I would write or not. Then I wrote my first book at fourteen and came up with the plot for the rest of the series. Again it was never a question. Writing was fun, I loved it!
Then I realized how difficult writing really could be as I tried to write my second book. But by then it was too late. I was already trapped.
Age ELEVEN you broke free of your lifelong writer's block.
DeleteOH THIS IS JUST WONDERFUL. I find this so charming, Nicki. You bring that charm to your work.
Good one, Mary, oh great keeper of cows and their babies! <3
ReplyDeleteI love to write because, when it's finished, I receive the sweetest hugs, high fives, notes, looks, etc. from children *and* adults. They tell me what an impact a little K9 Spy has made in their lives.
Who knew?
All I can say is, God did and He keeps me going. Don't yet know if there's another in the series of 4 forthcoming but there WILL be something in the future for sure. :D
Speedbo on everyone. Not joining y'all this round but might get in some Speedbo-ish writing this month. Just have to see how it goes.
(You'd think I didn't read your post huh?! /sigh/)
Go for it, KC. Maybe some FELINE spies? Bovine spies? :)
DeleteMary, what aGREAT post! Yes, your passion bolts through your words.
ReplyDeleteI began writing because God gave me a story idea at a very unexpected time. And that's how I knew it was God. I had given up the idea of writing stories of any kind because I had no idea how to get started. :)
I love the fast-drafting process of writing. When I picture a scene, and then I watch it take shape on the page—especially when something unexpected happens—that spurs my endorphins. :) Yes, even through the discouraging times, I love writing.
PS—Please put me in the drawing. :)
DeleteAww, Jeanne, all that you said, the story in your head, the unexpected things that pop up while you write. This is the joy of writing.
DeleteI feel like I have stories inside me that are dying to come out. I enjoy stopping by Seekerville for inspiration and tools on how to write my stories so somebody will want to read them.
ReplyDeleteI always do better when I set goals. Please include me in the drawing. Thanks.
Mary, congratulations on your new release!
Jackie isn't that the best feeling? Those stories that are in your head. And knowing you've got the skills to write them!!!
Delete"And write a book because, unlike many, many, many other people in this world YOU CAN!"
ReplyDeleteThanks, Mary. I needed that.
I've quit writing in the past ... and enjoyed my time away. Of course what I didn't realize was that I was absorbing all kinds of things that would contribute to my stories when I started writing again.
My favorite part of writing is when I read a scene and think, "I wrote that?" ... in a good way ;-)
Nancy C
Nancy C, I read stuff I've written and think, "Hey! That's pretty good!" :) Surprised. LOL Great feeling
DeleteThanks for this Speedbo encouragement today Mary! I gave up writing for a decade, after a really strong start but life - and the military - got in the way. I've been starting over since the fall of 2015 but I absolutely LOVE all of the authors and soon-to-be authors I've met up with here and through ACFW. That's my joy with my writing - regaining my self-confidence and finding new friends along the way. And this time, after a fallow period of a decade, God grabbed me and shook me up. So maybe that ten years hasn't been a waste after all because before that I wasn't writing for Him, and now I am. And I have a lot more life experience to write about. Today I have a migraine, but when I'm in the zone and tapping away, there's nothing better than that for a dopamine rush. :) Please put me in the drawing! and thanks again for your wise words.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry about the migraine. I used to get them so much worse than I do now. And to give it up for a while....then go back to it. Way to go. :)
DeleteMaking this comment short today :-)
ReplyDeleteGO SPEEDBO WRITERS, YOU CAN DO IT...RAH RAH RAH!!!
P.S. Mary, don't add my name to the Stetson for "Long Time Gone" as I just won one here not too long ago. Still waiting for it to arrive, but I am a patient person :-) GO MARY ON SPEEDBO!!
It should be getting there, any minute, Trixi!!!
DeleteMary, loved this post. I would definitely like to be in the hat for Long Time gone. I have No Way Up and would like to read them back to back...am sure I'll have time on hand as I recupe from upcoming back surgery. THANKS!
ReplyDeleteTrixi....feel better soon!
Oh Jackie Back Surgery? So sorry to hear that.
DeleteThis month, I'm writing my first rom-com. I was shocked to find it come out in first pov, because I've always written in third person. But, I'm loving my character and loving the story. I've had some laugh out loud moments. I've been trying to ignore the editor and critic in my brain as I type just for the fun of it.
ReplyDeleteToni that's so great that you can make yourself laugh. That's the fun of writing.
DeleteBoy Howdy! This post resonates so much for me. Before looking at any websites, I spent the morning outlining and plotting my book I use big drawing paper and colored pencils. Just using those colored pencils brings me such Joy. I felt glee as I worked through the twists and turns.
ReplyDeleteVery nice that I was already on this page before I read your post.
Thank you, Mary!
Laura, I love this. Colored pencils? Drawing paper? I just love hearing what works for other people. Thanks so much for sharing something gleeful. :)
DeleteThis was just what I needed, thanks Mary! I need to get back to writing instead of just talking about it. Please don't enter me in the contest as I am reading what I won several weeks ago Tried and True: )
ReplyDeleteStacy, get those words on paper, girl!!!!!!!
DeleteGo!
MARY...Awesome post. So mush goodness and truth here.
ReplyDeleteI write because I have to. Honest. I can't remember a time when I wasn't caught up in the interactions of characters inside my head. Getting it onto paper is sometimes a joy, sometimes a struggle, but always something I feel drawn to do.
Hmmm...what has brought me joy? there are so many things. I'll mention two. First, I have met so many dear friends through writing that I feel overwhelmed and blessed. And second, the readers I have interacted with. They are a true blessing.
Mary, I would love to be included in the drawing.
Dana, I tell people that writing is my default activity. It's everything else about life that seems to tear me away from 'normal'. Which, for me is sitting alone writing.
DeleteThanks for the encouraging post, Mary. I have completed my Speedbo goal everyday so far. I really want to get this book written, so I keep at it. So far I feel like most of the words I've written are terrible and need to be thrown out, but I also think I have some nuggets that might work.
ReplyDeletePlease enter me in the drawing.
You can fix 'terrible', Sandy. Not that yours is. We are all so hard on ourselves.
DeleteBut you cannot fix a blank page. Keep writing!
I have to create stories - in my head. Putting them down on paper is another creature altogether.
ReplyDelete*sigh*
That requires discipline.
Thanks for the encouraging post.
Yo're welcome, Cate.
DeleteSincerely Your
Mary "Crack the Whip" Connealy
:)
Great post, Mary. This is truly one of those times when I needed to read this, at just this moment. It gives me goosebumps when that happens. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteIt's an encouraging month, Laura. We're all putting the pedal to the metal here!
DeleteMary, I love the encouraging post. Except in my case, I wrote the book last month. This month I'm learning the discipline to edit so I have to use my internal editor. But my wonderful CP told me something didn't work and today was so much fun because I realized she was right and one chapter has a bunch of red on the paper (I edit on paper and then I read it all in one draft) and it was fun because the book is (fingers crossed) so much better with the changes. So everyone who is writing this month, don't read what I just wrote! Don't use your internal editor. That comes later. Seriously, though, I loved the advice and I loved the part about the joy of writing because today was one of those joyful days.
ReplyDeleteTanya we can all use Speedbo in whatever way we need. Set our own goals and achieve them.
DeleteI write because I'm afraid not to write. I've got some stories that I want to make sure get told.
ReplyDeleteWalt that's such a sentimental and wise way to look at writing. I find this really encouraging, because now I need to make sure my rollicking westerns, also get told, inside all the fun.
DeleteMary! I'm honored and so glad you found inspiration in my sometimes muddled words. 😃 One of my greatest joys in writing is actually encouraging others. It simply warms my soul when someone takes that encouragement to heart or finds one of my journals or planners helpful.
ReplyDeleteNow, to encourage myself to get my speedbo words done!
You're the best encourager there is, *lizzie. I'm glad to mention you!
ReplyDeleteI have been writing since I learned how to write my name in order to get my first library card. Short stories, poems, instructions, novels... I just love writing. The thing that gives me joy is when I've touched someone with it.
ReplyDeleteSpeedbo update: Made today's goals plus some of yesterday's.
Thanks for the encouraging words today.
Loraine, I like that. I find out from readers once in a while, some great story involving one of my books. It's such a wonderful feeling. So uplifting for the author.
DeleteWTG on the Speedbo goals.
I'm cheering on those who have taken on the Speedbo Challenge!
ReplyDeletePlease enter me in the drawing.
Hi Caryl, You're in. And we need encouragers. You're a big part of Speedbo success if you just come on and urge everyone onward!!!
ReplyDeleteGod gave me a vivid imagination. Most of my life I just enjoyed it but didn't put it on paper. There was a season during my Christian walk that the idea Christians did not read or write fiction bombarded me. Silly notion, but weird doctrines do float around and as we seek God it is easy to get confused. But the Lord eventually got my attention and reminded me the characters that roam through my head are a gift from him. They solve problems and remind me of what I am capable of. Now I love letting those characters speak to me as I write their stories. And I learn so much from them when the book is done. I can't not write. love to be in the drawing.
ReplyDeleteLoved this post. Especially since I want to be an author. Thank you. God bless.
ReplyDeleteAbigail
Mary, I needed this today! Two days of writer like activities and now I am off to t the computer! Please enter my name in the drawing.
ReplyDeleteI remember filling every notebook given to me with misspelled words and sloppy pictures since before I had siblings to play with. It was something I went back to every now and then, but I didn't truly begin to write maturely until I was fourteen and watched Marvel's Avengers for the first time. My dad says Hulk was my muse, but it was actually Captain America ;)
ReplyDeleteSpeedbo update: so far I've done it every day I said I would, with one extra.
Thank you so much for these encouraging words, Mary. I was a little "bummed" because life got in the way of writing yesterday. After church last evening, I snuck in 570 words. It wasn't the number I was looking for. But...as you helped me to remember, Speedbo is EVERY day and I have done that. I'm on top of it once again...many thanks and blessings to you.
ReplyDeleteMary, you're one of the reasons I didn't give up. You were one of my Genesis judges a few years ago, and as is common, my scores were all over the place. But you gave me a super-high score and wrote some very encouraging words that gave me hope the other judges would have destroyed otherwise. Probably one of my most favorite moments as a writer was after the book you judged was published, a reader told me she was so worried about what was going to happen to one of my beloved characters that she found herself praying for him! I absolutely loved that she was so involved with my story and my character, she saw him as real as I did. The funny thing is that while I was writing the story, I planned to kill the character to show his sacrificial love, but when I started writing the scene, I just boohooed like a baby and couldn't. So I just hurt him a little instead.:)
ReplyDeleteExcellent post, Mary!
ReplyDeleteYou've reminded me what a blessing it is to have the skills to write and create, thank you.
I enjoyed drafting the true story I wrote this morning (very short story). Brought up memories I'd forgotten about and helped me clarify a turning point in my life.
Please enter me in your generous drawing. I'm going to check out Lizzie's link after this.
May God bless you and all of Seekerville!
I wish I had seen this post about 20 years ago. At my age it is a bit late to get started on a serious writing career. However, I have journaled when traveling since about 1970. It is a nice way to reflect on what you have seen and done. Years later, it is a way to go back and revisit some good, and a few not so good, times. I do wish I had kept it up even infrequently over the years. Those daily events can often build into quite a memory. If things ever do calm down a bit I will be sitting down to jot down the things I do remember.
ReplyDeleteI already see the problem with this. Things never do seem to calm down and we put things off until it is too late. Better to take a few minutes from every day or so to jot down those thoughts.
Great post! I am not an author but I do write. Mainly journal articles but also reviews. I also send notes of encouragement and I find myself getting a bit wordy sometimes. :-)
ReplyDeleteBlessings!
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