Monday, December 4, 2017

Authenticity


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I’ve been trying to figure out exactly what ‘Write What You Know’ means.

In some fundamental ways, I don’t believe in it. Because honestly I write with a LOT of research. So I sure don’t really KNOW what I’m writing about.

I’ve just finished a series set in northern New Mexico. I took a trip to Northern New Mexico once. I rode on a narrow gauge train through hills and valleys, trees and grasslands.

Does that mean I know about that area?

Ditto for most every book I’ve written EXCEPT mostly I haven’t even taken a trip. I’m just looking at pictures, reading tour books, history books. Googling a bunch of stuff.

It’s all me writing what I DO NOT KNOW.

In another fundamental way, I sort of DO know it. I write cowboys. I’m married to a cattleman. He’s not really a historical western cowboy. He was born to recently for that!!!

But he knows cows.

I’ve lived in the country around farmers and animals and pastureland and all the attitudes that go with those things, all my life. So in that sense I am writing what I know.

I think, considering I wrote twenty books before I got the first one published, all romance novels, but within that broad genre, I covered a lot of territory. Sweet contemporary romances, contemporary romantic suspense, prairie romances, historical romance (obviously), even a gothic romance. Maybe the historical cowboys hit because I finally just got good. Or I hit a rising tide. But where I agree with ‘Write What You Know’ is…I think I can bring a really authentic voice to cowboys. Rural attitudes. Country life.

Newborn baby...80 or so pounds.
We have a cow/calf herd. That means we own about 120 cows and each year they each have a baby. We raise those babies from 80 pound newborns to 800 pound calves in less than a year.

Last Friday was our annual calf sale day.

8 months and 720 pounds later
We haul all the cattle to an auction barn about an hour from our house and sit there while the auctioneer rattles along in that odd way auctioneers do. Then pen after pen of cattle come through until finally they sell ours.


Auctioneers...why do they talk like that?
Have they done a scientific study that proofs the way the talk raises the bids?
For whatever reason, it's fun to listen too. I can even occasionally understand them


It’s early in December. Our first baby will be born at the end of January or the beginning of February. At which point we begin again, another 120 calves. Another year. Another sale.

My 2 year old granddaughter attended the calf sale. She waved bye-bye any time a pen of cattle left the arena. The auctioneer came up to My Cowboy afterward and said Katherine now owned 250 head of cattle.
It’s bittersweet because we know it’s the way of life for a cattleman…but we love those calves. My Cowboy husband pours so much work and care and attention into them.

It’s sort of that old commercial about ‘the milk of contented cows’…but there’s some truth in it because a stressed, unhealthy…and thus discontented cow…doesn’t grow well. It pays to make your cows happy. And that takes more than just good food and clean yards. It takes careful handling, gentle attention.

Hard work.



As I watched those calves sell, surrounded by other cattlemen, truckers, auctioneers, I was struck by the unusual life I live and I decided I am writing what I know in the sense of authenticity of attitudes. Roots that grow deep in my life…and in my work.

Today, I’d like us to talk about what we really know.

Think about your life. Who are you? Where did you come from? Is there a way to bring authenticity to your work in a way that might lead you to write better books…by writing what you know.

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  1. Hi Mary,

    Thank you for your post! And your adorable pictures of your family and those baby cows. :)

    Well, currently I know I could write about my snoring husband, which is why I'm up at such an odd hour. :) A scene that has already made it into one of my historical romances... :)

    But other than that, I think I am like you in the sense that I always research to find out more of what I might know a little something about like places I've been that are a setting for a book or even emotional events or experiences that I have felt and known...but may want to delve deeper into for a richer experience for the reader.

    I also think I tend to have similar themes through many of my books...redemption, self-acceptance, etc. Do you have any themes with your character journeys that you've noticed throughout your books? Even when you were unpublished and first starting out?

    Happy writing everyone! I brought some warm apple cider and some blueberry muffins if anyone is up and hungry already!

    Jeanine

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    1. Jeanne, the theme question...one thing I've noticed about my own writing...not sure if it's a THEME exactly but I like the idea...is I hate it when kids get married and move away from family. (a little slice of my own life, huh?)
      I've done that TWICE, had a woman find love far away, and it still bothers me.
      So I always try and find a way to keep families together.
      Do you think that's a theme?

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  2. Love this post, Mary! I am enchanted with your cow life. But then, I'd never want to sell the calves. I'll have to think more about what I know. I know that when I watch SyFy abnormal animal movies, like Megashark or Dinoshark, I expect certain things to happen. That's why I decided to finally write my own story in that genre. I thought it'd be fun to have an inspirational SyFy story about genetically engineered spiders. It's been fun writing it, but I may not be able to stop with one story.

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    1. Sally I LOVE THAT YOU'RE DOING THAT!!! And it seems like such a great story genre! Tons of opportunity for conflict and excitement and action. GOOD FOR YOU!!!

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  3. Hi Mary,

    I love that Catherine bought 250 head of cattle at the auction. I think you've got a story there. I'm not sure if your heroine will want to raise cattle to sell or is a vegetarian who wants to keep the cattle for other purposes. Ha!

    I feel like my stories are more authentic if I've actually been to a place. But I've never been running for my life from a man trying to kill me, so how authentic is that? I'll keep researching for gun wielding bad guys. (Although, two men came to the drug store where I worked within 48 hours of being released from PRISON. I got a bad feeling from the moment I spotted them and called the non-emergency police number. Thankfully a cop was close by and came right away and took the guys away before it became an emergency. Whew!)

    Thanks for sharing Mary!

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    1. Jackie!! When was this? Recently? YOU ARE A HEROINE WHO PREVENTED A CRIME!!!
      Either that oh you harassed two poor men just trying to start over in life, but whatever!!!!
      :D

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    2. Haha, they were up to no good. Cops were glad I called, but I was shaking in my shoes by the time it was all over.

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  4. What a great post Mary! I'm afraid if I was in your position I wouldn't want to let any of the cows go.

    Write what you know...I have heard that term used in choosing a genre as well. Such as, if you only read Historical Romance then write Historical Romance or if you only read Christian Suspense, write Christian Suspense. To me it would be more than that...like you researching and using what you know about cattle...that is truly 'write what you know'. For me, I have worked in Accounting and as a Surgical Tech in the Operating Room...I have stories to tell just in things that I experienced during those times. You probably think what kind of experience can you have in accounting...I worked at a television station (2 actually) and I learned a lot about the inner workings as well as the celebrity guests.

    I pray you have a blessed day!

    Blessings,
    Cindy W.

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    1. Cindy the accounting at a TV Station could be really cool. Of COURSE Medical stories are huge.
      Have you used this in stories?
      Go for it girl.

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  5. This is such a good learning tool... because I think the write what you know goes beyond the nuts and bolts. We can research that. Study it. Make graphs, take pictures, download images...

    When I think "write what you know", I go straight to emotion. The emotion of the story, of the characters.

    That upward and downward mix of emotions is something you do so well, Mary. You get us laughing, then you have us wanting to wring the bad guy's neck with bare hands... as we're cheering for the hero and heroine to win the day.

    That emotional ride is wonderful.

    Having said that... I use ALL OF MY NAMETAG jobs, jobs I worked hard at all my life, to create settings, characters, etc. And it's amazing how useful all of that information has been.

    So maybe a mix???

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    1. See Ruthy I think of your LI books and so many of your characters are a perfect fit for you. They're hard workers who aren't afraid to bake a cake. :)
      Emotion.
      That's so fundamental. AMEN!!!

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  6. Oh, boy, Mary. Well...I KNOW, and have brought it to just about every heroine I've written, that I'm a scared little girl inside. But because of the circumstances of my life, I've had to bluster and bluff to get through things. It's true of just about all my heroines -- Caroline on the Oregon Trail, Violet in the post-World War I settlement house, and the two wrenchingly imperfect young women in the contemporary series I'm working now. You never quite feel good enough -- Caroline because of the unplanned baby, Violet because everyone always told her she was stupid, the two women in the contemporary series because of two separate horrific childhoods. Me, probably, because of a demanding father. This is what we bring to romance and its subgenres, and to women's fiction. The fear of being unmasked, and the relief and joy and glory when you realize you don't have to pretend any more. Because God already knows.
    I am being stripped bare this Advent season, being taken apart and put back together again. And realizing the difference between "Advent" and "Christmas." They complement each other, but are such two completely different things. Advent is a work being done in us, Christmas is what we do for other people.
    Off to work and not a minute too soon, may be back later.
    Kathy Bailey

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    1. kaybee that 'I'm a scared little girl' inside. That's so touching. Sweet and in many ways, almost universal.
      So many of us are behaving correctly on the outside at the same time inside they're scared and cringing and beating themselves up with doubt.
      And to bring that to a character will connect with so many people.

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  7. Further thoughts...anyone can consult a map, or take a trip if they have time and money. Exploring the human heart is the real work.
    KB

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    1. Kaybee....this should be a meme!!! Very wise and true.

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  8. Good morning Mary! I think sometimes we'd be surprised at what we DO know if we'd ever stop to REALLY think about it and reflect on it. To write down the answer to what DO I know about that might be more than the average bear knows about it? Are any of those "somethings" anything that might engage a reader, that might enrich a story, that might add a bit of authenticity or a depth of emotion that will entertain or touch hearts?

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    1. Very nice, Glynna. Again we're talking emotion. Is that why we should 'write what we know'? Because we can bring emotional depth to a story if we are authentic when we tell it.

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  9. Hi Mary....

    I have to think about this....what is it I know that is naturally included in my writing?

    Hmmm.....

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    1. So true, Rose. I'm the same. WHAT to write can be tricky. But writing itself...is as natural to me as breathing

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  10. That's a pretty deep question for a Monday morning! I grew up as a military brat. I've lived lots of places, but never had a hometown. My authenticity comes, I think, from writing characters who are looking for 'home' in whatever sense that is: physical, spiritual, emotional.

    And I live in South Dakota--lots of ranchers. But I've been here more than 20 years and never been to the annual stock show! I tried writing cowboys and I think it was a flop. I need more research in my own back yard :)

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    1. Glynis...where in South Dakota? You know I'm from Nebraska right? You don't have to say the town but I'm from far northeast Nebraska. Are you anywhere near that? We could have lunch!!!

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    2. How much fun would lunch be? I'm "West River" but if I'm out east sometime we should do that!

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  11. Mary
    I agree with Glynis. This is a deep question because each of us knows on a 'living life experience' level and then the deeper level where all the hurts and pain reside. Write what you know could come from an endless supply. It's probably why we have so many stories rattling around in our minds.

    I research the parts of my stories that I'd like to do such as ride a fast motor cycle cross country or play paintball or ride a horse out of the starting gates. It's where that hidden part of my character sneaks out to play.

    And then I write what I love and add what I hope for. And that's probably why writers are content spending so much time alone. We can create places we love to be and hang out with people we like! But that said, I do like to spend time with my real friends and family.

    Yeah about those auctions. It has to be hard to be a cattleman. My experiences with horses keep me away from sale barns or I would be in Katherine's shoes (minus the cute factor and the jovial auctioneer) and bring 250 horses home. Then I'd be able to write horror stories!

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    1. Barbara if you can't stand to see them sell, it's best not to go, because they sell BIG TIME!!! LOL

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  12. Hi Mary, I love looking at your calves and hearing about them on Facebook. The auction has to be exciting. I love hearing good auctioneers work a crowd. But I'm always afraid to move when they're putting something up for bid for fear I'll truly end up buying something. Glad your granddaughter's age saved her from being a two-year-old rancher. LOL

    I know a great deal about the period that I set my books. Just to clarify I wasn't alive in the late 1800s! But my grandparents' farm in southern Indiana was much like that time period. I've lived near small towns. Like you say, I've got the feel for what it was like then. Research just fleshes that out, adds details I don't know. But the mindset, the love of the era is there.

    Janet

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    1. Janet you do it so well. I guess I ASSUMED it was first hand experience with the 1800s!!!

      LOL

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  13. Hey Mary! Your grand daughter is so cute! Saying bye to any fur baby is tough. You keep writing and we'll keep reading! Love your snarky heroines!

    Please toss my name in the stetson for a copy of your book.

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    1. Hi Caryl. Little Katherine is a sweetie for sure. You're names in the Stetson!!!

      At least I'm not throwing them in a grody CAT DISH like Ruthy does!!!

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  14. I've always wondered about that statement, Mary. It seems to be written in every craft book I read!

    I write contemporary westerns. I love cowboys. Started reading Louis L'Amour when I was a kidling. I lived in Montana for 18 years, but never went to an auction. I did experience 75 head of cattle in my front yard! Open range laws. Lots of fertilizer.

    I still have to research. I'm not a veterinarian. My heroine is. I'm not a big ranch owner. My hero is. I think if we write what we love, or know, we still have to research not only on the internet, etc., but into our hearts and minds to bring out the story we want to write, in order to write authentically.

    Blessings,

    Marcia

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    1. Marcia I tried to write.....well, I DID write a book about kid geniuses once. I think I wrote THREE books as a matter of act. I liked them, too, but I always suspected I wasn't really SMART enough to know how a geniuses mind works.

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    2. Of course maybe most READERS wouldn't be geniuses either. It could WORK!!!

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  15. I love calving season. Bright shiny coats. I grew up w/cattle. My husband and I haven't owned many, but we did have a time where we bought bottle-fed dairy calves. (I know, I know, not the same thing as beef cattle.) I can remember getting kicked some fierce blows trying to get some of those calves take a bottle.

    Write what you know? I agree with everyone's comments. It's more than just being there. Emotions. I tend to write to more about country/small town people.

    I love your heroine's boots on this cover!

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    1. So is that right for you, then Connie? Small town/country? IS that you!!!???

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  16. Mary, I loved the fact that Katherine was waving her hands to bid on cattle!! hahaha! She's so, so cute.

    Write what I know...small towns, involvement in church, kids, pets, being a mom, working at a hospital, teaching, writing.

    I guess I've written about all those things. But with your and Pam's help, I also wrote a cowboy novella!! Man, did this city girl have to ask a ton of questions! haha So yes, I think we can write outside of what we know if we are good at using Google and also have generous friends like you and Pam who'll read the work to make sure it's okay. :)

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    1. I like your list of things you know. But you're a genius, too. Do you ever write that?????

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  17. Mary!! What a great post. Does Katherine's 250 head of cattle make her a wealthy woman in historical standards? She's too cute!

    Writing what I know sorta happens with me. I live the law enforcement world everyday but portraying it in my stories is a tad different. I've had to do a lot of research as well and sometimes even that creates a story.

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    1. No, she's now deeply in debt and needs to rent pasture land!!! And a feed lot!

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  18. Sometimes I write what I've known for years, and sometimes I write what I've known for all of five minutes. :)

    But, I do generally stick to loner country boy cowboy types and strong women who might be in desperate circumstances. I'm a country girl raised on a farm, so I enjoy writing about farm and ranching life.

    Mississippi also has a history of logging, so that's become part of my brand as well.

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    1. I love the books you're writing now on the Natchez TRace, that is so YOU! So perfect, Pam! Did I tell you I saw The Promise of Breeze Hill in Barnes and Noble yesterday!!! I JUST LOVED THAT!!!

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  19. If we write only what we know, it may be kind of boring (leastwise, I don't live a particularly exciting and danger-filled life, which is just fine by me, but as a result it wouldn't make for a particularly exciting book). But when we write what we know into a story (even if it's only 5% what we know versus 95% research), people can feel the authenticity it lends.

    I know Minnesota (seasons, speech, attitudes, and all). And I know what a legacy of faith can do for a family--my great-grandma traveled alone from Sweden to Nebraska to marry an acquaintance's brother sight-unseen, with only second-hand assurance that he was a Christian and the feeling that God was calling her to do it. And they raised up Grandma in the faith, who raised Dad, who raised us with the stories of their faith.

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    1. Rachael, honestly I always PRAY for a boring life. If life is interesting it's almost always BAD!!!

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    2. Rachael my son-in-law's grandmother, now deceased, made that same trip only from Denmark to Nebraska. So many of us have those roots. My grandpa came from Scotland. My husband's great-grandpa came from Ireland.

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  20. Jealous. You get to go to an auction. I have to watch endless youtube videos. Then again, I have a medical background and hate writing medical. I am not sure the moral of this story. The only thing I can authentically write about and actually love ...would be food.

    Maybe a food book next.

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    1. LOL, Tina! Well, at least I know who my go-to gals are when I need info about cows or medical stuff!

      Oh, and food. 😉

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    2. I could ssssoooooooooooooo do food!!!! Inspiring!

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    3. I don't exactly GET to go to an auction, Tina. More like I HAVE to go to an auction. But I'm glad I have to go. It's cool. So different.

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  21. Hmmm. I know medicine. I’ve been through the process of medical school, residency, and work - both in the hospital and in the outpatient office. Perhaps that’s why I’m so picky about medical drama.

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  22. Katherine is so cute!!!!!! Were you able to fit all those cows she bought into your trailer to take home with you?

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    1. We're lucky she didn't apply for a bidding number!!!

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    2. We're lucky you can't apply by waving bye-bye

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  23. What do I KNOW about myself?? I KNOW about migraines! ICK! I know just about everything there is to know about them after 30 years of chronic migraines! I wish I didn't :( In fact tomorrow I go into my pain surgeon again for my "every 3 months" 40 shots of Botox! Not my favorite time of the year but I have to have them to survive so I do it!
    I love the cover of your book! So cute!

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    1. valri, so sorry about the migraines. I've had my share, though they've eased over the years. Awful when I was a young mom! I've heard of that botox treatment. Does it really work? It doesn't sound like you're feeling all that great!

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    2. The Botox treatments have really helped me! I've been doing them for 7-8 yrs. now. I went from 17 migraines a month to about 5 and that was a huge improvement! It is now down to about 3 a month so I keep doing them, along with daily medication and lifestyle requirements (tailored to me!)

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  24. Great post, Mary! I loved the video of Katherine. She's absolutely adorable.
    I should be writing suspense and crime, since I'm surrounded by it all day, but taking a break and escaping to small towns seems to ease the stress.
    That auction looks like so much fun. How about a Seekerville retreat and we can be your guests next time? :)

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    1. My guests at a livestock auction barn? Well, I'd say that would make my retreat unique in the history of the universe...so probably a good idea!!!

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  25. Mary, great post! Thank you for your time and for your books :)
    I am a reader! What do I know about myself? Hm...good questions, well, I'm an accountant - so I'm good with numbers (that's exactly why reading is my hobby LOL) You need to get away from those numbers sometime. But really...sometimes I do not recognize myself (these are usually times to turn to God and ask for his assistance :)
    Blessings, Natalya

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    1. Natalya, I think we don't always know all that churns under the surface. It's part of wisdom to at least know we DON'T KNOW!!!

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  26. Authenticity.

    Definitely an aspirational concept!

    Thank you.

    Gosh, who am I? How to write more authentically... Gracious. Depends on the "hat" I'm wearing that day but I do try to bring in concepts I've learned over the years, memories as we travel, dog things that May can share to her fans... :)

    LOVE your wonderful cow photos and stories. That's real life and you weave them into your books so well.

    Thank you!

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  27. I like authenticity in a book Mary! Or if you don't know about a subject because it's not a part of your life, research it until you can write it and make it SOUND like you know what you're talking about ;-) Fake it till you make it? HAHA!

    I like your cowboy/western stories, I've read many of them and feel like I'm stepping right into your world. Since I know you live in cow country, I know it comes straight from your heart. You're little grand-girl is adorable! I bet she has you and your cowboy wrapped around her little pinkie :-) Who could resist that cutie?

    Please add my name in the Resistol hat....I only know about that brand because Tina posted a video on how they're made :-) Pretty cool if you ask me!

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  28. When I first started writing at eleven, I was awful. I didn't connect with my characters or my stories. It took me a while to figure out what was wrong, but then I finally did. I was trying to write adult stories about adult characters when I didn't even know the first thing about being an adult!

    Then I realized that I had to write about people closer to my age. Who have lived through experiences, and think similar to what I've been through and think.

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  29. Well done, Mary!

    I know I love Jesus :) and my family, friends, cats and plants :)

    May God bless you and all of Seekerville!

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  30. Great post, Mary - thank you! I know small towns, smaller churches, big families and Texas history - even some obscure stuff that I discovered while writing for newspapers. So far, my books have been primarily about those things. I do have to research or beg my ranching/farming friends for help when I want to write about livestock/crops, etc. Don't know if readers will enjoy the finished product, but I'm having a blast writing it all :-)

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  31. Authenticity is so important to me, Mary! Not just authenticity in setting or historical detail, but in the human aspect ... emotions, reactions, motivations, etc. If a character isn't authentic to what that character is 'about' then the story doesn't work for me. One of the many things I enjoy about your stories is the "believability" of the characters ... they come across as natural outgrowths of their backgrounds, experiences, and decisions. Well done! :-)

    Nancy C




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  32. Mary, I had no idea you wrote 20 books before you were published! Now that's perserverance.

    Most of the herd has been thinned on the cattle ranch behind us, and now we're seeing a lot of fat momma cows and one honkin' big bull roaming around. Can't wait to see a new crop of calves. We get all the fun of the cows without all the upkeep. They help me channel my inner cowboy ... girl ... person.

    Hope you're feeling a lot better these days. Merry Christmas!

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  33. You know cows, Mary, for sure. So you are writing what you know. I started with a medical series because of my background, then went to a military series. Again, I was writing what I knew. I've lived around Amish folks so that feels somewhat natural too. But you're right, we can create anything with research!

    Congrats on your success!

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  34. Oh Mary, I wonder what I know. I loved your post! I have lived a life of a traveler really. My family has been the type that just up and moved if the spirit moved them to do so. I know dearly what it is like to spend many summers on the road traveling from one state to the next and looking at every weird thing you can find. I know what it is like to do first and think second. Oh do I know that too well! I know the life of being in a family of creatives and try-anythings.
    Thanks for the encouragement. I won just a short time ago, so regretfully I am passing on entering (got to give others a chance right?) but I have added it to my nudge list for my husband (we are on a buying freeze for ourselves).

    Have a wonderful week!

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  35. HI Mary, You do know your cowboys. smile. Love them. I really love nature and the outdoors. I guess that shows in my novels as I really write in the settings. Anyway, that is what critics say anyway. smile Fun post.

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  36. Hi Mary, I enjoyed reading your post and seeing your special pictures. What do I know? I was a farmwife/milkmaid, and tobacco hand for over 30 years so I know about early mornings and late nights; freezing temps in winter and sultry days in summer; precious baby calves born kicking and others born lifeless; selling milk at peak prices and then watching those prices plummet; having feed prices go up but never come back down; listening to an auctioneer at the tobacco warehouse tell you what your entire year of toiling in a tobacco crop is worth to those tobacco companies. And yet, I know that this life has been worth it. My husband, daughter and granddaughter have all been worth it. I know thst my love of books, reading and being a librarian are w big part of who I am.
    I just recently won also so I will give someone else the joy of winning your book.
    Blessings!

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  37. If I only wrote what I'm experiencing now it would be about 2nd and 4th grade drama, restaurants, American girl dolls, puppies, cats and music...and maybe a little about writing. Never a dull moment with kids and animals!

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  38. I know that there is a lot I do not yet know.

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  39. Mary, I have also learned that writing what I know adds authenticity to my writing. You write cows...I write South Carolina and law enforcement since I'm married to a federal agent and adore the state I live in. One series set in rural pockets of the state, and the other series set on Edisto Beach. My readers love being able to walk the sand and streets in my books. And my husband keeps me technically straight on the law enforcement side. We write best, I think, when we write about the worlds we know.

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  40. I appreciated your observation. I don't live in the west. However, I lived out west as a child while my father served in the Air Force. So like you I did my research without visiting the location for my historical. It has been almost fifty years since I lived in that area.
    The emotions behind the characters is something I do know. And as you said that is what makes it authentic.
    I realized as I read through the blurbs about each story that I've read at least half of them in other collections. Well-worth reading again. I love novella collections and if you are in it I know it will be worth the price.

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  41. OH MY GOSH, MARE -- KATHERINE and the auctioneer's statement below are flat-out ADORABLE:

    "The auctioneer came up to My Cowboy afterward and said Katherine now owned 250 head of cattle."

    LOVED the video of Ivan and Kathrerine, too, and of course the entire blog, plus this really hit home for me:

    "I decided I am writing what I know in the sense of authenticity of attitudes. Roots that grow deep in my life…and in my work."

    That's me, too, and I guess every writer, because I truly do feel that everything I write is like cutting a vein and bleeding who I am onto the page. Hard to get more authentic than that!!

    You asked: "Who are you? Where did you come from? Is there a way to bring authenticity to your work in a way that might lead you to write better books…by writing what you know."

    LOL ... I'm a weepy CDQ who came from a very dysfunctional family, so trust me -- that brings a TON of authenticity (and a little bit of craziness!) to all of my books. :)

    Great post, Mare!

    Hugs and more hugs,
    Julie

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  42. I know that I am stronger than I feel sometimes. I also know that I enjoy reading and appreciate writers.

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  43. Thank you for your comments about writing what you KNOW (or don't?!) Yes, with research one can write anything, right? And you write it so well. Something about myself that I know? Well, I know I love chocolate! and I know that I am a child of God. Thanks again for sharing.

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  44. I love when authors are able to write with authenticity because the extra details bring so much crispness and vibrancy to the story and setting, rather than a vague feeling for it.

    I know art, photography, compassionate service, motherhood, and a husband with a funny sense of humor. There must be a story in there somewhere ;)

    Throw my name in the hat for your new book!

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  45. Please throw my name in the cowboy hat. I love your books and the feisty ladies you create. I've tried incorporating my interest in musicals into my stories.

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